Again, I don't know why you guys rip on WB just because he shares an opinion you don't like. I actually find it interesting that he comes on here and comments. He's right - the rest of us, most of us I suspect - are simply Cal fans and have no inside interaction with MM.
I guess I'll just say this, WB. It IS true that it is in bad taste to come on here, a public and anonymous forum, and throw out words like A-hole like you did. Stuff like that should respectfully be kept confidential. If you wanted to share your experience, you could have used more tasteful vocabulary.
If two girls asked you out on a date, you might pick the nicer looking one. But in declining from the other, you wouldn't walk away saying she was a dog. You would be a gentleman and decline politely, saying you had a prior engagement. Instead of a-hole, you could have said that the family didn't "feel comfortable", a "connection" wasn't made. Maybe MM didn't believe in ML to the extent felt merited/required. Hell, you might even go so far as to use the word "arrogant", but not a-hole, as you have twice now done. That raises people's emotion and thus bashing of you.