See that's where I think you're being unreasonably negative. I'm not trying to tell anyone what kind of a fan they should be but you should at least get the facts straight.
We just finished with the consensus 3rd ranked recruiting class in the Pac-12, ahead of Washington, UCLA, and Stanford. 24/7 rates it as the 24th best class in the country, ESPN has it at 21st, consensus rating has it at 28th overall and all of them have us rated over the huskies, bruins, and trees.
Cal recruiting wins over the schools you mentioned and a few others:
USC x5, Oregon x6, Washington x3, UCLA x7, Stanford x2, Michigan x4, LSU x2, TAMU x3, Oklahoma x2, Alabama, Ohio State, Notre Dame and that's all just from the '21 recruiting class which was a pretty small class