okaydo said:
It is amusing to read the various posts on this thread with most posters sharing their views about what is going on in Sonny's mind based upon their own perspective.
Sonny like most other College FB head coaches is not like most of us. Rarely do they move to a place they want to live. They move to a place where they can coach a better team or for more money and provides a better stepping stone to the top of their profession.
What Sonny said was no promise of staying at SMU:
"I'm not ever going to talk about other jobs"
Remember he was fired at Cal for spending too much time looking for other HC positions. Sure many Cal fans wanted him gone. But the AD was leaning toward giving him one more year until Sonny shot himself in the foot by taking one trip too many to listen to other offers.
So now Sonny says; I'm not going to talk about leaving. He doesn't say: "I'm never leaving."
And even if he said "I'm never leaving". I wouldn't believe it any more than when a movie star, upon getting married, says "our marriage is forever".