Let's just expand-Mental Health of Athletes and Family Values

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BearinOC
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I really thought about the players not wanting to travel and wanting to stay home for family members to watch their games. By traveling across the country, family will not be able to travel. As such, being in the Bay Area, I believe we will keep a lot of kids otherwise who wanted to goto WA, OR, UCLA and USC.

With many kids wanting to stay home, we may not see immediate athletic success but but highly sought kids realizing they can only do so much traveling and getting back to their dorms at 4AM, I am willing to bet traveling will get pretty old very quick. It would be interesting to see what happens when the transfer portal reopens.

I feel like we must play up to our strengths:

Cal degree
Stay local
Power 5
Athletes mental health

Imagine this Pac 12:

Cal
Stanford
SDSU
Fresno State

WSU
OSU
UNLV
Boise State

Colorado State (Denver Market)
North Texas (Dallas Market)
Southern Methodist (Dallas Market)
Rice (Houston Market)

New Mexico State?
Nevada?



chalcidbear
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Of your four parameters, three are relatively easy to meet. But the 4th (Power 5) is a tougher nut to crack. And in this day and age, TV rules all things football, and I don't see this amalgamation of teams bringing in sufficient TV revenue to fly.
CNHTH
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I agree but I'm a realist and so let's be real about motivations.
For an 18 year old man 3 things matter.
1.) women
2.) $
3.) weed

While we used to be #1 in one of those it is now apparent to me that everyone and their grandma across the country has a dispensary near them so theirs really no way to differentiate on #3

For #1 we really don't have that good of a selection. I'm sorry but the type of guy who is going to Cal for women either already has a serious girlfriend or has a huge thing for Asian chicks. Maybe we can start to find out which fat dudes like Asian chicks and start to target them hard. Because let's be real. If you're hetero and in Berkeley and don't like Asian women… you're going to be depressed pretty quickly.

For #2, this is our strength and we appear to be making strides here in nil. But we need to do more. We can't be 10x the alumni wealth of Alabama or SMU and get out recruited by them and their **** locals. We are in a better area with a better climate a better education and more money. There is no reason in hell we should be losing in this area. I exposed the fact that donations direct to the ad thru light the way and annualized donations far exceeded Alabama and yet here we are. Imho the solution is more accountability.
golden sloth
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I always thought it was slightly creepy that when Ross Bowers went to Cal, his entire family followed him. As in his parents quit their jobs and moved two states away and his sibling had to change schools. An entire family's life should not be centered around one child's athletic endeavor. That is not healthy and they had bad family values in my opinion.

Family doesnt need to attend every game. We need to make sure they can watch every game on TV, but not attend every game in person.
golden sloth
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BearinOC said:

I really thought about the players not wanting to travel and wanting to stay home for family members to watch their games. By traveling across the country, family will not be able to travel. As such, being in the Bay Area, I believe we will keep a lot of kids otherwise who wanted to goto WA, OR, UCLA and USC.

With many kids wanting to stay home, we may not see immediate athletic success but but highly sought kids realizing they can only do so much traveling and getting back to their dorms at 4AM, I am willing to bet traveling will get pretty old very quick. It would be interesting to see what happens when the transfer portal reopens.

I feel like we must play up to our strengths:

Cal degree
Stay local
Power 5
Athletes mental health

Imagine this Pac 12:

Cal
Stanford
SDSU
Fresno State

WSU
OSU
UNLV
Boise State

Colorado State (Denver Market)
North Texas (Dallas Market)
Southern Methodist (Dallas Market)
Rice (Houston Market)

New Mexico State?
Nevada?






Every kid wants to be a star and make the NFL. Neither will happen playing in the conference you propose. Cal would not recruit the top level players.
01Bear
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CNHTH said:

I agree but I'm a realist and so let's be real about motivations.
For #1 we really don't have that good of a selection. I'm sorry but the type of guy who is going to Cal for women either already has a serious girlfriend or has a huge thing for Asian chicks. Maybe we can start to find out which fat dudes like Asian chicks and start to target them hard. Because let's be real. If you're hetero and in Berkeley and don't like Asian women… you're going to be depressed pretty quickly.


Because women, especially Asian(-American) women exist solely to please men? ( )

You need to stop objectifying women, including/especially Asian-American women.
CNHTH
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01Bear said:

CNHTH said:

I agree but I'm a realist and so let's be real about motivations.
For #1 we really don't have that good of a selection. I'm sorry but the type of guy who is going to Cal for women either already has a serious girlfriend or has a huge thing for Asian chicks. Maybe we can start to find out which fat dudes like Asian chicks and start to target them hard. Because let's be real. If you're hetero and in Berkeley and don't like Asian women… you're going to be depressed pretty quickly.


Because women, especially Asian(-American) women exist solely to please men? ( )

You need to stop objectifying women, including/especially Asian-American women.

First off it's a joke…second off when did I ever say anything about pleasing men. I said 18 year old boys care about 3 things…money, women, and weed
If you think something else that's fine. I'd be happy to debate you on it, but back to the crux of that issue.
There really isn't a good dating scene in Berkeley if you're a heterosexual 18 year old football player. There just isn't. We're behind the curve in that area. Again this is being a realist and in this reality called planet earth 18 year Homo sapiens with *****es like to interact with 18 year old Homo sapiens without *****es. And in most cases that interaction is based solely on physical traits and booze and probably weed. Im sorry that that reality is so offensive to you. I didn't create it but whether you accept it or not is inconsequential to the fact that it very much exists.
oski003
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CNHTH said:

01Bear said:

CNHTH said:

I agree but I'm a realist and so let's be real about motivations.
For #1 we really don't have that good of a selection. I'm sorry but the type of guy who is going to Cal for women either already has a serious girlfriend or has a huge thing for Asian chicks. Maybe we can start to find out which fat dudes like Asian chicks and start to target them hard. Because let's be real. If you're hetero and in Berkeley and don't like Asian women… you're going to be depressed pretty quickly.


Because women, especially Asian(-American) women exist solely to please men? ( )

You need to stop objectifying women, including/especially Asian-American women.

First off it's a joke…second off when did I ever say anything about pleasing men. I said 18 year old boys care about 3 things…money, women, and weed
If you think something else that's fine. I'd be happy to debate you on it, but back to the crux of that issue.
There really isn't a good dating scene in Berkeley if you're a heterosexual 18 year old football player. There just isn't. We're behind the curve in that area. Again this is being a realist and in this reality called planet earth 18 year Homo sapiens with *****es like to interact with 18 year old Homo sapiens without *****es. And in most cases that interaction is based solely on physical traits and booze and probably weed. Im sorry that that reality is so offensive to you. I didn't create it but whether you accept it or not is inconsequential to the fact that it very much exists.


As a student at Berkeley, I dated a few smart admirable women who were also attractive. However, as far as "slaying tail" is concerned, going to Berkeley had a lot of pull at bars and parties around Los Angeles (my home town). It certainly didn't hurt.
cal83dls79
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BearinOC said:

I really thought about the players not wanting to travel and wanting to stay home for family members to watch their games. By traveling across the country, family will not be able to travel. As such, being in the Bay Area, I believe we will keep a lot of kids otherwise who wanted to goto WA, OR, UCLA and USC.

With many kids wanting to stay home, we may not see immediate athletic success but but highly sought kids realizing they can only do so much traveling and getting back to their dorms at 4AM, I am willing to bet traveling will get pretty old very quick. It would be interesting to see what happens when the transfer portal reopens.

I feel like we must play up to our strengths:

Cal degree
Stay local
Power 5
Athletes mental health

Imagine this Pac 12:

Cal
Stanford
SDSU
Fresno State

WSU
OSU
UNLV
Boise State

Colorado State (Denver Market)
North Texas (Dallas Market)
Southern Methodist (Dallas Market)
Rice (Houston Market)

New Mexico State?
Nevada?




uh, no. C'mon
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kal kommie
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BearinOC said:

I really thought about the players not wanting to travel and wanting to stay home for family members to watch their games. By traveling across the country, family will not be able to travel. As such, being in the Bay Area, I believe we will keep a lot of kids otherwise who wanted to goto WA, OR, UCLA and USC.

With many kids wanting to stay home, we may not see immediate athletic success but but highly sought kids realizing they can only do so much traveling and getting back to their dorms at 4AM, I am willing to bet traveling will get pretty old very quick. It would be interesting to see what happens when the transfer portal reopens.

I feel like we must play up to our strengths:

Cal degree
Stay local
Power 5
Athletes mental health

Imagine this Pac 12:

Cal
Stanford
SDSU
Fresno State

WSU
OSU
UNLV
Boise State

Colorado State (Denver Market)
North Texas (Dallas Market)
Southern Methodist (Dallas Market)
Rice (Houston Market)

New Mexico State?
Nevada?
This conference you've constructed seems to defeat the requirement of being near enough for family members to watch their games. What's the difference for the family of a CA kid between flying to Washington, Colorado or Texas and flying to an ACC location? Yeah the flight is longer and more expensive but when you have to get on a plane anyway, you're not getting much benefit from the shorter distance involved. A non-stop flight from Oakland to Raleigh is only 1.5 hours longer than the 3.5 hour flight to Dallas.
01Bear
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CNHTH said:

01Bear said:

CNHTH said:

I agree but I'm a realist and so let's be real about motivations.
For #1 we really don't have that good of a selection. I'm sorry but the type of guy who is going to Cal for women either already has a serious girlfriend or has a huge thing for Asian chicks. Maybe we can start to find out which fat dudes like Asian chicks and start to target them hard. Because let's be real. If you're hetero and in Berkeley and don't like Asian women… you're going to be depressed pretty quickly.


Because women, especially Asian(-American) women exist solely to please men? ( )

You need to stop objectifying women, including/especially Asian-American women.

First off it's a joke…second off when did I ever say anything about pleasing men. I said 18 year old boys care about 3 things…money, women, and weed
If you think something else that's fine. I'd be happy to debate you on it, but back to the crux of that issue.
There really isn't a good dating scene in Berkeley if you're a heterosexual 18 year old football player. There just isn't. We're behind the curve in that area. Again this is being a realist and in this reality called planet earth 18 year Homo sapiens with *****es like to interact with 18 year old Homo sapiens without *****es. And in most cases that interaction is based solely on physical traits and booze and probably weed. Im sorry that that reality is so offensive to you. I didn't create it but whether you accept it or not is inconsequential to the fact that it very much exists.

Funny how when offensive people get called out on their misogyny and/or racism, they quickly turn to the "it's a joke" defense. It clearly wasn't a joke since you specifically state, "Because let's be real. If you're hetero and in Berkeley and don't like Asian women… you're going to be depressed pretty quickly."

Your comment not only implies that women exist only to please heterosexual men (after all, why else would they be necessary to keep these men from becoming depressed?) but that all Asian-American women are inherently the same and interchangeable. That's some really messed up racism and misogyny.

Also, that straight men and women like to interact with one another is not offensive. Your disingenuous efforts to pave over your intentionally offensive remarks by pretending that's what was offensive just goes to show you fully intended to be offensively racist and misogynistic with your earlier post.
01Bear
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oski003 said:

CNHTH said:

01Bear said:

CNHTH said:

I agree but I'm a realist and so let's be real about motivations.
For #1 we really don't have that good of a selection. I'm sorry but the type of guy who is going to Cal for women either already has a serious girlfriend or has a huge thing for Asian chicks. Maybe we can start to find out which fat dudes like Asian chicks and start to target them hard. Because let's be real. If you're hetero and in Berkeley and don't like Asian women… you're going to be depressed pretty quickly.


Because women, especially Asian(-American) women exist solely to please men? ( )

You need to stop objectifying women, including/especially Asian-American women.

First off it's a joke…second off when did I ever say anything about pleasing men. I said 18 year old boys care about 3 things…money, women, and weed
If you think something else that's fine. I'd be happy to debate you on it, but back to the crux of that issue.
There really isn't a good dating scene in Berkeley if you're a heterosexual 18 year old football player. There just isn't. We're behind the curve in that area. Again this is being a realist and in this reality called planet earth 18 year Homo sapiens with *****es like to interact with 18 year old Homo sapiens without *****es. And in most cases that interaction is based solely on physical traits and booze and probably weed. Im sorry that that reality is so offensive to you. I didn't create it but whether you accept it or not is inconsequential to the fact that it very much exists.


As a student at Berkeley, I dated a few smart admirable women who were also attractive. However, as far as "slaying tail" is concerned, going to Berkeley had a lot of pull at bars and parties around Los Angeles (my home town). It certainly didn't hurt.

As a student, I never had any problems getting dates at Cal, either. But I'm also not a racist and misogynist who only values women for their appearances and their race.* I actually respected (and still respect) women and found their intelligence, personalities, senses of humor, and innumerable other qualities.

*TBC, this isn't directed toward you, but rather at the troll who posted earlier.
DoubtfulBear
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01Bear said:

oski003 said:

CNHTH said:

01Bear said:

CNHTH said:

I agree but I'm a realist and so let's be real about motivations.
For #1 we really don't have that good of a selection. I'm sorry but the type of guy who is going to Cal for women either already has a serious girlfriend or has a huge thing for Asian chicks. Maybe we can start to find out which fat dudes like Asian chicks and start to target them hard. Because let's be real. If you're hetero and in Berkeley and don't like Asian women… you're going to be depressed pretty quickly.


Because women, especially Asian(-American) women exist solely to please men? ( )

You need to stop objectifying women, including/especially Asian-American women.

First off it's a joke…second off when did I ever say anything about pleasing men. I said 18 year old boys care about 3 things…money, women, and weed
If you think something else that's fine. I'd be happy to debate you on it, but back to the crux of that issue.
There really isn't a good dating scene in Berkeley if you're a heterosexual 18 year old football player. There just isn't. We're behind the curve in that area. Again this is being a realist and in this reality called planet earth 18 year Homo sapiens with *****es like to interact with 18 year old Homo sapiens without *****es. And in most cases that interaction is based solely on physical traits and booze and probably weed. Im sorry that that reality is so offensive to you. I didn't create it but whether you accept it or not is inconsequential to the fact that it very much exists.


As a student at Berkeley, I dated a few smart admirable women who were also attractive. However, as far as "slaying tail" is concerned, going to Berkeley had a lot of pull at bars and parties around Los Angeles (my home town). It certainly didn't hurt.

As a student, I never had any problems getting dates at Cal, either. But I'm also not a racist and misogynist who only values women for their appearances and their race.* I actually respected (and still respect) women and found their intelligence, personalities, senses of humor, and innumerable other qualities.

*TBC, this isn't directed toward you, but rather at the troll who posted earlier.

It's a pity that the mods are so hands off here. The recent uptick in traffic has brought in all the low lifes out of the woodwork
cal83dls79
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DoubtfulBear said:

01Bear said:

oski003 said:

CNHTH said:

01Bear said:

CNHTH said:

I agree but I'm a realist and so let's be real about motivations.
For #1 we really don't have that good of a selection. I'm sorry but the type of guy who is going to Cal for women either already has a serious girlfriend or has a huge thing for Asian chicks. Maybe we can start to find out which fat dudes like Asian chicks and start to target them hard. Because let's be real. If you're hetero and in Berkeley and don't like Asian women… you're going to be depressed pretty quickly.


Because women, especially Asian(-American) women exist solely to please men? ( )

You need to stop objectifying women, including/especially Asian-American women.

First off it's a joke…second off when did I ever say anything about pleasing men. I said 18 year old boys care about 3 things…money, women, and weed
If you think something else that's fine. I'd be happy to debate you on it, but back to the crux of that issue.
There really isn't a good dating scene in Berkeley if you're a heterosexual 18 year old football player. There just isn't. We're behind the curve in that area. Again this is being a realist and in this reality called planet earth 18 year Homo sapiens with *****es like to interact with 18 year old Homo sapiens without *****es. And in most cases that interaction is based solely on physical traits and booze and probably weed. Im sorry that that reality is so offensive to you. I didn't create it but whether you accept it or not is inconsequential to the fact that it very much exists.


As a student at Berkeley, I dated a few smart admirable women who were also attractive. However, as far as "slaying tail" is concerned, going to Berkeley had a lot of pull at bars and parties around Los Angeles (my home town). It certainly didn't hurt.

As a student, I never had any problems getting dates at Cal, either. But I'm also not a racist and misogynist who only values women for their appearances and their race.* I actually respected (and still respect) women and found their intelligence, personalities, senses of humor, and innumerable other qualities.

*TBC, this isn't directed toward you, but rather at the troll who posted earlier.

It's a pity that the mods are so hands off here. The recent uptick in traffic has brought in all the low lifes out of the woodwork
no real need for thought police or Stasi quite yet
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DoubtfulBear
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cal83dls79 said:

DoubtfulBear said:

01Bear said:

oski003 said:

CNHTH said:

01Bear said:

CNHTH said:

I agree but I'm a realist and so let's be real about motivations.
For #1 we really don't have that good of a selection. I'm sorry but the type of guy who is going to Cal for women either already has a serious girlfriend or has a huge thing for Asian chicks. Maybe we can start to find out which fat dudes like Asian chicks and start to target them hard. Because let's be real. If you're hetero and in Berkeley and don't like Asian women… you're going to be depressed pretty quickly.


Because women, especially Asian(-American) women exist solely to please men? ( )

You need to stop objectifying women, including/especially Asian-American women.

First off it's a joke…second off when did I ever say anything about pleasing men. I said 18 year old boys care about 3 things…money, women, and weed
If you think something else that's fine. I'd be happy to debate you on it, but back to the crux of that issue.
There really isn't a good dating scene in Berkeley if you're a heterosexual 18 year old football player. There just isn't. We're behind the curve in that area. Again this is being a realist and in this reality called planet earth 18 year Homo sapiens with *****es like to interact with 18 year old Homo sapiens without *****es. And in most cases that interaction is based solely on physical traits and booze and probably weed. Im sorry that that reality is so offensive to you. I didn't create it but whether you accept it or not is inconsequential to the fact that it very much exists.


As a student at Berkeley, I dated a few smart admirable women who were also attractive. However, as far as "slaying tail" is concerned, going to Berkeley had a lot of pull at bars and parties around Los Angeles (my home town). It certainly didn't hurt.

As a student, I never had any problems getting dates at Cal, either. But I'm also not a racist and misogynist who only values women for their appearances and their race.* I actually respected (and still respect) women and found their intelligence, personalities, senses of humor, and innumerable other qualities.

*TBC, this isn't directed toward you, but rather at the troll who posted earlier.

It's a pity that the mods are so hands off here. The recent uptick in traffic has brought in all the low lifes out of the woodwork
no real need for thought police or Stasi quite yet

Yea, this is America after all. Where the lowest common denominator get to make life worse for the rest of us.
cal83dls79
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DoubtfulBear said:

cal83dls79 said:

DoubtfulBear said:

01Bear said:

oski003 said:

CNHTH said:

01Bear said:

CNHTH said:

I agree but I'm a realist and so let's be real about motivations.
For #1 we really don't have that good of a selection. I'm sorry but the type of guy who is going to Cal for women either already has a serious girlfriend or has a huge thing for Asian chicks. Maybe we can start to find out which fat dudes like Asian chicks and start to target them hard. Because let's be real. If you're hetero and in Berkeley and don't like Asian women… you're going to be depressed pretty quickly.


Because women, especially Asian(-American) women exist solely to please men? ( )

You need to stop objectifying women, including/especially Asian-American women.

First off it's a joke…second off when did I ever say anything about pleasing men. I said 18 year old boys care about 3 things…money, women, and weed
If you think something else that's fine. I'd be happy to debate you on it, but back to the crux of that issue.
There really isn't a good dating scene in Berkeley if you're a heterosexual 18 year old football player. There just isn't. We're behind the curve in that area. Again this is being a realist and in this reality called planet earth 18 year Homo sapiens with *****es like to interact with 18 year old Homo sapiens without *****es. And in most cases that interaction is based solely on physical traits and booze and probably weed. Im sorry that that reality is so offensive to you. I didn't create it but whether you accept it or not is inconsequential to the fact that it very much exists.


As a student at Berkeley, I dated a few smart admirable women who were also attractive. However, as far as "slaying tail" is concerned, going to Berkeley had a lot of pull at bars and parties around Los Angeles (my home town). It certainly didn't hurt.

As a student, I never had any problems getting dates at Cal, either. But I'm also not a racist and misogynist who only values women for their appearances and their race.* I actually respected (and still respect) women and found their intelligence, personalities, senses of humor, and innumerable other qualities.

*TBC, this isn't directed toward you, but rather at the troll who posted earlier.

It's a pity that the mods are so hands off here. The recent uptick in traffic has brought in all the low lifes out of the woodwork
no real need for thought police or Stasi quite yet

Yea, this is America after all. Where the lowest common denominator get to make life worse for the rest of us.
please. Just put the dude on ignore and move on. It's called life in America. Or choose to live in a bubble
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