ferCALgm2 said:
Bearly Clad said:
Y'all deserved better but hating on us with no logical basis doesn't make sense to me. We didn't blow it up or keep you guys down, we were just on the last chopper out of Saigon and not responsible for leaving you guys behind
This x 10000. I think a lot of us Cal fans had even adopted the Beavs as a second favorite team and rooting for them the last couple of years.
Then realignment happened and staying through PAC4, and before we even left or had done anything to hurt their chances, a lot of Beav fans started dissing Cal. It's too bad. I still want to root for OSU a little and definitely know they deserve way better, but then I remember how they've all seemed to turn against Cal... Trying to push us down so they look a little better?
I think it's Bridesmaid's Syndrome "I love her and she's my friend but why is she getting married and not me?" Even before we left it was like drowning people scrambling to push each other down to reach the surface and they had to climb over us to try and stay afloat. (Sorry for the mixed metaphors)
For us I think all Cal fans realize that "there but for the grace of God, go I." We know how close we were to being there so we can empathize.
Also, imagine how tough it is to know that your admin and AD did everything right but it still turned out this way? Excluding their last leadership who were one of the 3 that saved Larry Scott for all those years, but their current leadership invested in the programs, found a great coach, achieved success, were establishing a brand, and were winning on and off the field. They were recruiting well, they were consistently hitting the 15-10 ranking spots each season, and had holistically built something with staying power. Contrast that with us who had an absentee AD, a chancellor who didn't understand the stakes or just didn't care, who did absolutely nothing right, and we were still saved by white knight alum and, yes, our connections to Stanford. That would be a brutal gut punch no matter how you slice it.
So I understand the resentment m, I just think it should be reserved for the system and not us because we were passive participants. If it was the other way around I'd probably be bitter but I like to think I'd say "sucks for us but OSU didn't deserve to suffer too so good for them." The real hate should be reserved for Fox/Disney, southern cal, UC Los Angeles, Larry Scott, and probably Colorado for tipping over that last domino