<blockquote><div class="name-said">ManhattanMadMan;696936 said:</div><hr>We know you bleed blue and gold and I for one appreciate hearing through reports that you wanted Shaq to be near home and play at his brother's alma mater. And play for decent, ethical, and respectable coaches.<br /><br />You will always be welcomed at Cal and along with Syd will always be part of the Golden Bears family!<br /><br />Go Bears!<hr></blockquote><br /><br />As a parent, I know that you can give your kids advice, but when they get to be HS Seniors they have to be allowed to make their own choices even if you think they are making a mistake (in girlfriends, college majors, and even which college to attend, etc.)