freshfunk;737490 said:
Wow. Unbelievable.
That's good to know. I'm familiar with that school district because my in-laws live just outside it. It's interesting because my wife and I have talked about what sort of school we want to send our kids to (when the time comes) and she doesn't want to send the to an overly competitive school (like mission San Jose). I, on the other hand, would rather try for the more competitive schools.
She went to an extremely competitive high school and I went to an average one so we probably just see the grass as being greener on the other side.
I had a similar experience; my younger brother went to MSJ, while I went to a mediocre high school. The right choice really depends on the student. If you know that you're child is lazy or an under-achieverer, yet is very competitive and prideful (which my brother was), sending him or her to a very competitive high performing school will usually prompt them to work harder. I'm not kidding when I say that your popularity ends up being tied to your academic performance at schools at MSJ; if you take a bunch of normal classes and/or have anything less than a 3.5 you get looked down on.
At my high school, the other students' expectations were B's and C's and if tried hard to get A's you were considered a loser, so if you're not focused or self-motivated you can easily lower your own standards and end up in a bad situation (I know a number of friends who did). I went through an interesting high school experience; my family initially lived in the MSJ area so I went to school with those type of kids, but while I was in Jr. High the school board redrew the boundaries so that my elementary school was diverted to a lower performing high school in the district. I can think of quite a few friends who had been honor students and were pretty smart though lazy, who then face-planted and ended up only getting into schools like SCU or CSUEB. Of course, I'm probably biased, but the message I took home was that a highly competitive environment is a strong motivator for lazy but smart students.
Another note; I ended up transferring to MSJ my senior year because my high school ran out of math and sciences classes for me to take, which I need 4 years of for MIT (moot point as I later got a fat rejection letter from them). At the end of it all, my transcript ended up showing a 3.5 GPA with a class rank of 250/400 and so-so SAT scores by MSJ standards, but I still got into Cal, UCLA, UCSD, and a handful of East Coast privates and lower tier Ivys, so I don't really feel class rank has a whole lot to do with it.
Something like 50 students in a class of 400 go to Cal, another 50 go to UCLA, 50 more go to UCSD, 15-20 more go to elite privates, etc. so it's not like it's very hard to get into a good college from a high school like MSJ, unless your SAT scores stink. I'm pretty sure the stats are similar at schools like Lynbrook, Saratoga, Cupertino, Gunn, Paly, etc. and if it really was a big issue, there probably wouldn't be that many people willing to buy million dollar shacks in those districts.
ETA: My brother secretly hated the people at MSJ and the school itself. While it appears to have been the right choice for him (he ended up getting into every school he applied to), he's convinced that it wasn't worth it and that he could have accomplished the same at any other school. In contrast, given his maturity level and how big of a slacker he was when he entered high school, there is no doubt in my mind that he did go to the right school. It's funny, part of the reason he actually tried so hard was to make sure he didn't have to go to Berkeley to get away from his peers who would ultimately go to Berkeley en masse (in his words, people that are shallow, can't think for themselves and subscribe to group-think, never questions anything an authority figure says, overly academically focused, disconnected from the real world, etc).