MoragaBear;842251817 said:
He offered a perspective you don't see a lot on either side of the fence. That's what made it thought-provoking to me.
You don't see enough respect offered or given for one's personal beliefs very often in the world today. Just the very fact that a person believes something one way or the other makes them evil in many people's eyes. Just the fact that someone is gay makes that person evil in many religious people's minds and the mere fact that a religious person has a moral code that doesn't coincide with theirs automatically makes the religious person evil to many because more implications are automatically extrapolated and assumed about that person.
I think you do actually hear that perspective a lot -- by people in the religious right. That's why I find the post suspect -- it's impossible to find the original, and it just tacks "I'm gay" onto some boilerplate debate points. I've also never met a gay man who thinks there's any question about whether people are born gay. (The idea that they're "made" is crucial only to those who want to lump it in with other sins, which are all matters of choice.) It's also tough to find a gay man who hears talk of "homosexuals, drunks [and] terrorists" as the words of a peaceful, tolerant person. Tolerance accompanied by condemnation doesn't feel like tolerance.
I agree about respecting personal beliefs, but too many people these days don't seem to see faith as a "personal" thing. If a person wants to believe in God, fine; in the divinity of Jesus, fine; that they shouldn't eat shellfish every 2nd Tuesday, fine. And if one believes that God wants them not to be gay, they can feel free to not be gay. But personal beliefs should govern personal behavior. They don't leave one free to force those beliefs on others.
Regarding forcing those beliefs on others -- I think these battles, like the Duck Dynasty one, are fought with an eye on other battles. Who cares what Robertson thinks about attraction to boy vs. girl parts? Probably someone who had a caterer back out of a wedding once they found out it was for a same-sex couple. "Religious freedom" ties the discussions together, and if that becomes an accepted excuse for discrimination in any form, discrimination will be harder to fight. So a few clumsy remarks by a reality TV character ignite a national debate.