It's true that our two choices are "lots of suites" or "no new stadium", but that doesn't mean we have to like the fact that those are our only options, and it's worth pointing out that most other new stadiums have found a way to get those suites in there in a less conspicuous way.
Congrats 49ers, you've built the NFL's version of
Atlanta's Philips Arena (whose own fugly wall of suites couldn't save it from losing its NHL franchise...)
It'd be hilarious if Apple or Google bought out all the other suite-holders for one game, then used all those windows to display their company logo for that entire game.