YuSeeBerkeley said:
So now child rape is the same as domestic violence? But this actually highlights the dilemma. Where is the line of demarcation? It becomes a slippery slope.
Everybody can sit on their high horse in an ivory tower, but this involves real people and real lives. The question that really should be asked is, does this help the victim, Courtney Smith? The answer is unquestionably, no. If her ex-husband loses his job and can't make money, he can't pay alimony and child support. That hurts the victim. But at least the firing of Urban Meyer will quench the thirst of the blood thirsty mob. It's just so satisfying to point their finger and look down on someone who used to be so high up.
I just find this whole situation to be ridiculous. Not only are you responsible for your own actions, you now need to be held accountable for all those under you. Admittedly this is selfish, but I don't want that responsibility. What my employees do in their personal lives is their business, not mine. If they screw up, why do I have to answer for it? And which bad behavior becomes a fireable offense? Is it worth the risk of facing a wrongful termination lawsuit?
So you think Urban Meyer should stay in his leadership role even if he's a sh*tty leader?
"So now child rape is the same as domestic violence? But this actually highlights the dilemma. Where is the line of demarcation? It becomes a slippery slope."Domestic violence, rape, molestation, murder, assault, prostitution are all serious crimes.
Nowadays, schools don't want their names to be associated with serious crimes.
"Everybody can sit on their high horse in an ivory tower, but this involves real people and real lives. The question that really should be asked is, does this help the victim, Courtney Smith? The answer is unquestionably, no. If her ex-husband loses his job and can't make money, he can't pay alimony and child support. That hurts the victim. But at least the firing of Urban Meyer will quench the thirst of the blood thirsty mob. It's just so satisfying to point their finger and look down on someone who used to be so high up."So a victim should just live with the abuse because of the money?
Serious crimes and being accused of serious crimes come with serious consequences -- not the reward of a $340,000 a year job. These jobs are rare and hard to get, as you can see from the salary. So people who actively harm the people they work for shouldn't be given those jobs.
"Not only are you responsible for your own actions, you now need to be held accountable for all those under you."Yes, the people you hire as a football coach are an extension of you. They are a reflection of you. They are your ambassadors. When they do wrong, it's your name that will be in the lede of news articles, and/or in the headlines. When you're hiring somebody for a coveted $340,000 a year job at a public institution of higher learning -- the combined salary of three UC Berkeley professors -- you want to get the best of the best. A rare combination of somebody who is stellar at their jobs and who comes with integrity.
And if they do wrong, you cut bait or you take measures to ensure that they really did wrong by putting it in the hands of your superiors.
"Admittedly this is selfish, but I don't want that responsibility."Great -- I'm assuming you don't have a job of great responsibility.
But being the powerful head football coach of a public school making $7.6 million a year comes with a f*ckload of responsibility. The salary says it all. It comes with the territory. You have that job and that extremely rare salary not just because you can win, but because you are a leader of men and/or a person who can identify people who help you be a great leader.
You are one of hundreds of millions people who can win and be a great leader of students.
If Urban Meyer didn't want the responsibility, then he should have signed on for another job.
"What my employees do in their personal lives is their business, not mine. If they screw up, why do I have to answer for it?"When you have an employee potentially doing criminal behavior, it's your business.
First off, you can't rely on somebody to be your coach if they're in jail, or if they have to be in court while you're having key meetings.
Secondly, if you're going into the homes of potential recruits and meeting moms, it's hard to look them in the eye if they know that you don't take domestic violence seriously. (Well, I'm sure a sociopath can do it.)
Thirdly, it hurts a program when you have one non-head coach person generating headlines and causing a distraction that will likely impact the team, and thus your job. (It's kind of like that lowly guy you never heard of in the Trump administration a few months back who generated headlines for his domestic violence. He had to leave because he became the big news.)
I'm assuming that you were outraged that Sonny Dykes apparently forced out Pierre Ingram because he got arrested for prostitution in his personal life?
No, even a program like Cal football found it distasteful to be connected to the word "prostitution."
(The president of ESPN was doing cocaine in his personal time. He said it didn't affect his performance. Nobody noticed his performance was affected. Yet his boss, the CEO of Disney, forced him to step down.)
And which bad behavior becomes a fireable offense? Is it worth the risk of facing a wrongful termination lawsuit?As the saying goes, it's not the crime. It's the cover-up. If you're unable to handle leadership basics, then maybe you shouldn't be a leader.