SFCityBear said:Geez, Bearister, Thanks for searching and locating that story. I intended to retell it, but I was tardy in doing so. I got very involved with the Lowell High Alumni Association which is opposing the SF School Board which passed a resolution to rename 44 San Francisco schools, including my high school, junior high, and elementary school.bearister said:01Bear said:bearister said:
Yeah, your Nate story about you and your date in the restaurant is a memorable one and a great testament to what a nice person Nate was.
The thing that gets my goat about the modern game more than anything else: How is a defender supposed to guard a guy that picks up his dribble and walks in for a layup? The very reason the offensive player picked up his dribble is because the defender was sealing him off....then the offensive player flips the script and makes himself unguardable by walking, often resulting in a foul and two FT.
SFCityBear, what's the story? Would you mind sharing it here?
I used Google* to locate it. SFCity Bear posted this comment in a thread on 12/16/20 (I copied and pasted):
" I think a told this story before, but I first met Nate Thurmond in Henry Africa's club on Broadway. I was having a drink with my date, when in the door comes Nate Thurmond and his long-time girlfriend. They sat down at a table on the other side of the crowded nightclub. I called the waiter over, and told him to bring a round of drinks for Nate and his ladyfriend, but don't make a big deal out of it. If he asks, just tell him the drinks are from a fan. A few minutes later, the waiter returned, and told me, "Mr. Thurmond won't accept the drinks unless you come over and join them at his table." So we went over to Nate's table and joined them, We spent about 3 hours together telling stories, and had a wonderful time. My date didn't know a basketball from a tennis ball, but we all seemed to enjoy each other. We talked basket ball, but then they wanted to know what we did, and everything about us as well. At the end of the evening, Nate asked me, "What are you doing this weekend?" Nate then said, "Well, I've got to fly down to San Diego this weekend for a game with the Clippers, and I'd like you to come down with me. There is probably no one in San Diego who will buy me a drink."
Nate also opened a restaurant, selling mostly BBQ, using his mother's recipes. Best BBQ in SF. I used to stop by from time to time, and Nate and I always laughed about how we met. Before that time, I had felt that all the 7-footers were eccentric people, not particularly open, somehow a little uncomfortable in their tall frames, but I found Nate the Great to be a very regular guy, and I am very happy to have known him."
* Search terms: bearinsider SFCityBear Nate Henry Africa (I remembered the name of the hostelry)
Anyway, I can add a few small details to the Nate Thurmond story. I remembered that I had met Nate for a moment several years earlier. I had a girlfriend at the time who was about 5 feet tall, and she had this crush on Nate Thurmond, and when we were attending a game in Oakland, she kept asking me if we could get Nate's autograph. I finally gave in, and after the game, we went down to the door of the locker room, where a few people were waiting for the players to come out. Several players came out and some met family members and they went off to their cars in the parking lot. There were three absolute foxes there, dressed to the nines. Out comes Sleepy Floyd, and they all snuggle up to him, and take his arms and walk to his Mercedes, off to a party somewhere, I suppose. Then Nate came out, and my girlfriend, who was very shy, and I asked him for his autograph, which he gladly gave her, and then asked us how we enjoyed the game, and thanked us for coming. He could not have been nicer. My girlfriend had never been up close to someone that tall, and she couldn't stop talking about him all the way home.
I also remembered that Nate opened a restaurant on Fillmore street at the edge of the Western Addition area. He had a cook and a manager who were both relatives, and the menu was mostly his mother's recipes of soul food. It had a bar as well. It was later on that he got the idea to open a soul food BBQ place on Folsom st that served take out or delivered BBQ.
Finally, I will add to the story that you posted above, that when we were about to leave Henry Africa's club, I went outside to get my car, a '54 MG TF Roadster parked a few blocks away, and bring it to the front door and pick up my girlfriend. I had left the top down when I parked it, and during the time we were in the bar, it had rained, a rather heavy downpour. My car was filled to the top of the doors with water. I opened one and all the water rushed out. I had a couple of towels in trunk, and I tried to dry off the passenger seat. The seat was still pretty wet, but luckily, she had so much to drink, she did not notice all the way home.
That is about it. Nate lived up on Twin Peaks, I think, I lived not too far away. I used to see him in his car from time to time in different neighborhoods. Did you know that Nate and Gus Johnson were on the same high school team? Gus was later a star for the Baltimore Bullets.
Man, those are some great stories!
Also, thank you Bearister for googling and then copy and pasting the first story.
Finally, if SFCB's car was as sweet looking as the one in Bearister's picture, I can see why the ladies were drawn to him!