Bad ref decision with the penalty here, unfortunate for Croatia
Disagree, 100% a penalty.Cal88 said:
Bad ref decision with the penalty here, unfortunate for Croatia
I'm the President of a high level club program. Different sport, different region. I get this type of question a good bit. My answer is to let 6 (or 8 or 10) year olds be kids for a while. During that time their love of the game will either grow or peter out. You cannot control that. It has to happen organically. If you push them too much too early the game becomes not fun and they quit and/or resent you. The balance you are looking for at this age is to get him into increasingly advanced play / training while still having fun. In my sport that usually means transitioning from public (rec) versions of the sport to club versions of the sport. But however you do it in soccer, continuously monitor to make sure proper skill advancement is paired with fun at least until, I don't know for soccer, maybe 12 or 13.oski003 said:
Question. I have a 6 year old son in so cal who is good at soccer and does really well in AYSO. What is the best way to develop his talent if he really likes to play?
I think this idea is right but the age is wrong for soccer. I am a former AYSO coach, which is not saying much, but one of my kids played high level club soccer and had teammates who are now playing in college. Soccer is so complicated that success is not possible without high level technique. That technique is taught between the ages of 9 and 12 (or so). It is at those ages that touch, proper ball striking, and use of both feet is learned. Therefore, I think a good club should be found at 9 or 10. Until then, AYSO is great.tequila4kapp said:I'm the President of a high level club program. Different sport, different region. I get this type of question a good bit. My answer is to let 6 (or 8 or 10) year olds be kids for a while. During that time their love of the game will either grow or peter out. You cannot control that. It has to happen organically. If you push them too much too early the game becomes not fun and they quit and/or resent you. The balance you are looking for at this age is to get him into increasingly advanced play / training while still having fun. In my sport that usually means transitioning from public (rec) versions of the sport to club versions of the sport. But however you do it in soccer, continuously monitor to make sure proper skill advancement is paired with fun at least until, I don't know for soccer, maybe 12 or 13.oski003 said:
Question. I have a 6 year old son in so cal who is good at soccer and does really well in AYSO. What is the best way to develop his talent if he really likes to play?
sluggo said:Disagree, 100% a penalty.Cal88 said:
Bad ref decision with the penalty here, unfortunate for Croatia
I think some good advice is being dished out here. I coached AYSO soccer for eight years, four each with a son and daughter. Neither went on in soccer---one tennis, one rowing.sluggo said:I think this idea is right but the age is wrong for soccer. I am a former AYSO coach, which is not saying much, but one of my kids played high level club soccer and had teammates who are now playing in college. Soccer is so complicated that success is not possible without high level technique. That technique is taught between the ages of 9 and 12 (or so). It is at those ages that touch, proper ball striking, and use of both feet is learned. Therefore, I think a good club should be found at 9 or 10. Until then, AYSO is great.tequila4kapp said:I'm the President of a high level club program. Different sport, different region. I get this type of question a good bit. My answer is to let 6 (or 8 or 10) year olds be kids for a while. During that time their love of the game will either grow or peter out. You cannot control that. It has to happen organically. If you push them too much too early the game becomes not fun and they quit and/or resent you. The balance you are looking for at this age is to get him into increasingly advanced play / training while still having fun. In my sport that usually means transitioning from public (rec) versions of the sport to club versions of the sport. But however you do it in soccer, continuously monitor to make sure proper skill advancement is paired with fun at least until, I don't know for soccer, maybe 12 or 13.oski003 said:
Question. I have a 6 year old son in so cal who is good at soccer and does really well in AYSO. What is the best way to develop his talent if he really likes to play?
OdontoBear66 said:I think some good advice is being dished out here. I coached AYSO soccer for eight years, four each with a son and daughter. Neither went on in soccer---one tennis, one rowing.sluggo said:I think this idea is right but the age is wrong for soccer. I am a former AYSO coach, which is not saying much, but one of my kids played high level club soccer and had teammates who are now playing in college. Soccer is so complicated that success is not possible without high level technique. That technique is taught between the ages of 9 and 12 (or so). It is at those ages that touch, proper ball striking, and use of both feet is learned. Therefore, I think a good club should be found at 9 or 10. Until then, AYSO is great.tequila4kapp said:I'm the President of a high level club program. Different sport, different region. I get this type of question a good bit. My answer is to let 6 (or 8 or 10) year olds be kids for a while. During that time their love of the game will either grow or peter out. You cannot control that. It has to happen organically. If you push them too much too early the game becomes not fun and they quit and/or resent you. The balance you are looking for at this age is to get him into increasingly advanced play / training while still having fun. In my sport that usually means transitioning from public (rec) versions of the sport to club versions of the sport. But however you do it in soccer, continuously monitor to make sure proper skill advancement is paired with fun at least until, I don't know for soccer, maybe 12 or 13.oski003 said:
Question. I have a 6 year old son in so cal who is good at soccer and does really well in AYSO. What is the best way to develop his talent if he really likes to play?
Then along came grandchildren. Had two granddaughters that went all the way through college soccer and the oldest made two Final Fours. There is an intensity there that either the child has a love of the sport or not. It will come through. If it is ho hum, I would almost suggest, let it go. However, if intense I am not sure the way ours went is the best way looking back, even though it worked. Each started in club tryouts at the eight year old level with a top clubs in SoCal. What I don't like about that in looking back is that there is such an intensity, ambition, and competition on the part of the parents, I don't think it is in the best interest of the child. It can wait.
I believe a better solution would be to have the child take privates at the early age and develop foot skills and confidence along with time to decide whether he or she really enjoys the game (not because you do). Believe me if the skills are there the coaches and club teams will find your player at 9 or 10 or even a bit later. As soccer is a strong team game that team development must come pretty early, but not until the player decides if the sport is for him or her.
In my sport it is very important to choose wisely when you make this switch. The parent dynamic can start getting in the way. They want little Johnny to be a superstar. They care too much about the team winning. Also, not all clubs are built the same, not all clubs are in it for the betterment of the kids, not all coaches have the ability to develop the kids.oski003 said:OdontoBear66 said:I think some good advice is being dished out here. I coached AYSO soccer for eight years, four each with a son and daughter. Neither went on in soccer---one tennis, one rowing.sluggo said:I think this idea is right but the age is wrong for soccer. I am a former AYSO coach, which is not saying much, but one of my kids played high level club soccer and had teammates who are now playing in college. Soccer is so complicated that success is not possible without high level technique. That technique is taught between the ages of 9 and 12 (or so). It is at those ages that touch, proper ball striking, and use of both feet is learned. Therefore, I think a good club should be found at 9 or 10. Until then, AYSO is great.tequila4kapp said:I'm the President of a high level club program. Different sport, different region. I get this type of question a good bit. My answer is to let 6 (or 8 or 10) year olds be kids for a while. During that time their love of the game will either grow or peter out. You cannot control that. It has to happen organically. If you push them too much too early the game becomes not fun and they quit and/or resent you. The balance you are looking for at this age is to get him into increasingly advanced play / training while still having fun. In my sport that usually means transitioning from public (rec) versions of the sport to club versions of the sport. But however you do it in soccer, continuously monitor to make sure proper skill advancement is paired with fun at least until, I don't know for soccer, maybe 12 or 13.oski003 said:
Question. I have a 6 year old son in so cal who is good at soccer and does really well in AYSO. What is the best way to develop his talent if he really likes to play?
Then along came grandchildren. Had two granddaughters that went all the way through college soccer and the oldest made two Final Fours. There is an intensity there that either the child has a love of the sport or not. It will come through. If it is ho hum, I would almost suggest, let it go. However, if intense I am not sure the way ours went is the best way looking back, even though it worked. Each started in club tryouts at the eight year old level with a top clubs in SoCal. What I don't like about that in looking back is that there is such an intensity, ambition, and competition on the part of the parents, I don't think it is in the best interest of the child. It can wait.
I believe a better solution would be to have the child take privates at the early age and develop foot skills and confidence along with time to decide whether he or she really enjoys the game (not because you do). Believe me if the skills are there the coaches and club teams will find your player at 9 or 10 or even a bit later. As soccer is a strong team game that team development must come pretty early, but not until the player decides if the sport is for him or her.
Trying him out for the local club. He is good in space, anticipates very well, is extremely competitive and faster than almost everyone else. He needs to develop better dribbling, so I may look at getting him a few lessons. Soccer isn't my top sport, but he has a strong interest. The other kids his age with good dribbling skills seem to have parents who can teach that.
Thank you all for the advice.
sluggo said:I think this idea is right but the age is wrong for soccer. I am a former AYSO coach, which is not saying much, but one of my kids played high level club soccer and had teammates who are now playing in college. Soccer is so complicated that success is not possible without high level technique. That technique is taught between the ages of 9 and 12 (or so). It is at those ages that touch, proper ball striking, and use of both feet is learned. Therefore, I think a good club should be found at 9 or 10. Until then, AYSO is great.tequila4kapp said:I'm the President of a high level club program. Different sport, different region. I get this type of question a good bit. My answer is to let 6 (or 8 or 10) year olds be kids for a while. During that time their love of the game will either grow or peter out. You cannot control that. It has to happen organically. If you push them too much too early the game becomes not fun and they quit and/or resent you. The balance you are looking for at this age is to get him into increasingly advanced play / training while still having fun. In my sport that usually means transitioning from public (rec) versions of the sport to club versions of the sport. But however you do it in soccer, continuously monitor to make sure proper skill advancement is paired with fun at least until, I don't know for soccer, maybe 12 or 13.oski003 said:
Question. I have a 6 year old son in so cal who is good at soccer and does really well in AYSO. What is the best way to develop his talent if he really likes to play?
Yes, I think this is the best way to develop, playing thousands of hours with friends and neighbors developing coordination and ideas. And then at a certain age bringing those skills to a formal training environment. But that never existed here, and it never will, as informal play here has greatly decreased. I am not sure it even exists in basketball any more.Cal88 said:
In Europe or south America, most of the development at his age would come from playing pickup games at the local park and in school courtyards with slightly older players, dribbling and passing the ball all afternoon many times per week. Works out great if he has an older brother, cousin or neighbors of his age. Playing in leagues on big fields at his age is a waste of time.
I think part of the reason US soccer has underachieved is because there is too much emphasis on organized/structured soccer at too early an age. US basketball is supreme precisely because there is a highly developed playground/pickup game culture that exceeds anything in Europe. Not the case in soccer...
sluggo said:Yes, I think this is the best way to develop, playing thousands of hours with friends and neighbors developing coordination and ideas. And then at a certain age bringing those skills to a formal training environment. But that never existed here, and it never will, as informal play here has greatly decreased. I am not sure it even exists in basketball any more.Cal88 said:
In Europe or south America, most of the development at his age would come from playing pickup games at the local park and in school courtyards with slightly older players, dribbling and passing the ball all afternoon many times per week. Works out great if he has an older brother, cousin or neighbors of his age. Playing in leagues on big fields at his age is a waste of time.
I think part of the reason US soccer has underachieved is because there is too much emphasis on organized/structured soccer at too early an age. US basketball is supreme precisely because there is a highly developed playground/pickup game culture that exceeds anything in Europe. Not the case in soccer...
Since it doesn't, a lot of soccer development experts recommend futsal. Futsal, which is small sided soccer often played on basketball courts, demands dribbling ability and creativity. I think it is part of development around the world along with pickup.
Another perspective:Cal88 said:sluggo said:I was half watching so I am not sure what happened but why do you think there was no var? Isn't it possible that var took one look and agreed with the call and thus there was no delay?TandemBear said:
That penalty kick awarded to Argentina?
Are you kidding me? That was so lame, I'm tempted to say FIFA and the World Cup is so COMPLETELY corrupt, it isn't worth watching.
The Dutch player BARELY touched his foot, he flops and the dumb**** ref falls for it. Look at the slow-motion replay and it was OBVIOUS no penalty was committed on that play, much less one that rises to deserve a PK. Plus, it was barely on the line, if even, and the automotron ref immediately points to the PK spot. But worse? WAY worse? NO VAR REVIEW???? W-T-F do you have VAR when it isn't used to SCRUTINIZE a game-altering bull**** call when the WC is on the line?
Beyond disgusting. I don't expect refs to get it right every time. But when they tend to favor the "pre-supposed winner" or the team with the "arguable GOAT" and then fail to review a CRUCIAL ticky-tacky call via VAR, then this becomes a farce. The Dutch were completely jobbed on this one.
One feature that got virtually eliminated is the indirect kick inside the box, which would be called for very light/involuntary fouls and hand balls, at the discretion of the referee. It placed a greater responsibility on the ref's shoulders but when properly applied by a capable ref, was a great and very fair option.
Good in space at the age of six? Everyone is not just chasing after the ball?oski003 said:OdontoBear66 said:I think some good advice is being dished out here. I coached AYSO soccer for eight years, four each with a son and daughter. Neither went on in soccer---one tennis, one rowing.sluggo said:I think this idea is right but the age is wrong for soccer. I am a former AYSO coach, which is not saying much, but one of my kids played high level club soccer and had teammates who are now playing in college. Soccer is so complicated that success is not possible without high level technique. That technique is taught between the ages of 9 and 12 (or so). It is at those ages that touch, proper ball striking, and use of both feet is learned. Therefore, I think a good club should be found at 9 or 10. Until then, AYSO is great.tequila4kapp said:I'm the President of a high level club program. Different sport, different region. I get this type of question a good bit. My answer is to let 6 (or 8 or 10) year olds be kids for a while. During that time their love of the game will either grow or peter out. You cannot control that. It has to happen organically. If you push them too much too early the game becomes not fun and they quit and/or resent you. The balance you are looking for at this age is to get him into increasingly advanced play / training while still having fun. In my sport that usually means transitioning from public (rec) versions of the sport to club versions of the sport. But however you do it in soccer, continuously monitor to make sure proper skill advancement is paired with fun at least until, I don't know for soccer, maybe 12 or 13.oski003 said:
Question. I have a 6 year old son in so cal who is good at soccer and does really well in AYSO. What is the best way to develop his talent if he really likes to play?
Then along came grandchildren. Had two granddaughters that went all the way through college soccer and the oldest made two Final Fours. There is an intensity there that either the child has a love of the sport or not. It will come through. If it is ho hum, I would almost suggest, let it go. However, if intense I am not sure the way ours went is the best way looking back, even though it worked. Each started in club tryouts at the eight year old level with a top clubs in SoCal. What I don't like about that in looking back is that there is such an intensity, ambition, and competition on the part of the parents, I don't think it is in the best interest of the child. It can wait.
I believe a better solution would be to have the child take privates at the early age and develop foot skills and confidence along with time to decide whether he or she really enjoys the game (not because you do). Believe me if the skills are there the coaches and club teams will find your player at 9 or 10 or even a bit later. As soccer is a strong team game that team development must come pretty early, but not until the player decides if the sport is for him or her.
Trying him out for the local club. He is good in space, anticipates very well, is extremely competitive and faster than almost everyone else. He needs to develop better dribbling, so I may look at getting him a few lessons. Soccer isn't my top sport, but he has a strong interest. The other kids his age with good dribbling skills seem to have parents who can teach that.
Thank you all for the advice.
For development, yes. It also looks like great fun. One of my kids played and enjoyed it.oski003 said:sluggo said:Yes, I think this is the best way to develop, playing thousands of hours with friends and neighbors developing coordination and ideas. And then at a certain age bringing those skills to a formal training environment. But that never existed here, and it never will, as informal play here has greatly decreased. I am not sure it even exists in basketball any more.Cal88 said:
In Europe or south America, most of the development at his age would come from playing pickup games at the local park and in school courtyards with slightly older players, dribbling and passing the ball all afternoon many times per week. Works out great if he has an older brother, cousin or neighbors of his age. Playing in leagues on big fields at his age is a waste of time.
I think part of the reason US soccer has underachieved is because there is too much emphasis on organized/structured soccer at too early an age. US basketball is supreme precisely because there is a highly developed playground/pickup game culture that exceeds anything in Europe. Not the case in soccer...
Since it doesn't, a lot of soccer development experts recommend futsal. Futsal, which is small sided soccer often played on basketball courts, demands dribbling ability and creativity. I think it is part of development around the world along with pickup.
Do you recommend looking for a local futsal league for kids?
Ok my 2 cents. I grew up in The Netherlands. As kids from age 6 we played in parks doing pick up games and played on the local soccer club. We played with smaller balls not the regular size as it was thought those bigger size balls are for grown ups. What smaller balls do is develop a more detailed level of technique. We also practice at home and kick the ball against the wall with both feet without stopping. All these skills were worked on at a very young age. We played 1 game a week on Saturdays early and trained with the club once a week. I would focus on basic technique, kicking with both feet, juggling the ball and keeping things fun. The rest can come later. I think burnout at a an age before high school is a real thing. That is why so many kids stop playing soccer.Cal88 said:
In Europe or south America, most of the development at his age would come from playing pickup games at the local park and in school courtyards with slightly older players, dribbling and passing the ball all afternoon many times per week. Works out great if he has an older brother, cousin or neighbors of his age. Playing in leagues on big fields at his age is a waste of time.
I think part of the reason US soccer has underachieved is because there is too much emphasis on organized/structured soccer at too early an age. US basketball is supreme precisely because there is a highly developed playground/pickup game culture that exceeds anything in Europe. Not the case in soccer...
Your points are good ones. In the 1960s and before, we played whatever sport was in season with no parental involvement (unless you played Little League baseball). My sons started as 5 year-olds in the mid-90s playing soccer, but also basketball and baseball up until they were 10-12 then dropped whatever wasn't interesting and in some cases (track, volleyball) picked up something else. Soccer was the one constant - all the way through club-level in college. We didn't care what sport they played, but we wanted was for them to learn three things:Goobear said:Ok my 2 cents. I grew up in The Netherlands. As kids from age 6 we played in parks doing pick up games and played on the local soccer club. We played with smaller balls not the regular size as it was thought those bigger size balls are for grown ups. What smaller balls do is develop a more detailed level of technique. We also practice at home and kick the ball against the wall with both feet without stopping. All these skills were worked on at a very young age. We played 1 game a week on Saturdays early and trained with the club once a week. I would focus on basic technique, kicking with both feet, juggling the ball and keeping things fun. The rest can come later. I think burnout at a an age before high school is a real thing. That is why so many kids stop playing soccer.Cal88 said:
In Europe or south America, most of the development at his age would come from playing pickup games at the local park and in school courtyards with slightly older players, dribbling and passing the ball all afternoon many times per week. Works out great if he has an older brother, cousin or neighbors of his age. Playing in leagues on big fields at his age is a waste of time.
I think part of the reason US soccer has underachieved is because there is too much emphasis on organized/structured soccer at too early an age. US basketball is supreme precisely because there is a highly developed playground/pickup game culture that exceeds anything in Europe. Not the case in soccer...
sycasey said:
Even with all of the random upsets, I think if you'd told people before the tournament started that the final was going to be Argentina vs. France they would not have been surprised.
tequila4kapp said:
I really thought Morraco looked much better than expected β¦ yet France handled them pretty well. I don't know about matchups and style of play and all that but France has to be the favorite over Argentina, right?
Argentina has something going for them. A number of their players made great, incisive long passes against Croatia. Messi is the best at little slip passes to beat the back line. France is less likely to break down Argentina with such passes. But they are much faster, dribble better, and are better in the air. There should be goals, with with one or two extra to France. I say 3-2 France.tequila4kapp said:
To my eye Morraco's finishing problems were actually France being very good on D, closing on the offenseive players quickly and not giving Morroco space to create / take shots.
I thought the Hernandez goal was every bit as difficult as you say.
My admittedly simplistic way of seeing the final game is that if we accept that France has the best scorers (young Mbappe > old Messi) and if France proved their defensive chops against Morraco, then good luck Argentina.
What was the most predicted final?GMP said:sycasey said:
Even with all of the random upsets, I think if you'd told people before the tournament started that the final was going to be Argentina vs. France they would not have been surprised.
Surprised, no. But I ran a pool with 85 entrants. Each got to pick two teams from Pot 1 (Brazil, Argentina, France, England, Belgium, Portugal, Spain). Only six picked both Argentina and France (brag: I was one of them). That's pretty low.
sluggo said:A coach who did not think he needed this guy is not a coach I want. Coaches can be replaced, a talent like this comes along very rarely. I hope he is not renewed. Other than a rigid system that does not lead to goals, neither in qualifying (the US just barely qualified) nor in the World Cup, I agree that he is not clever enough to adjust tactics in games.philly1121 said:
Well he released a statement on IG saying that Greg told him his playing time would be limited right when they arrived in Qatar. He admitted he let his emotions get the best of him and tanked the scrimmage against Al-Gharafa. But he says the coach and team intervened, he apologized and everyone moved forward.
Not sure how Berhalter thinks that releasing this info does any good at all except to shed light on why Gio didn't play.
Berhalter needs to judge games better. he's good in first half but he can't adjust fast enough in the 2nd.GIOVANNI REYNA ROCKET πππ pic.twitter.com/mvfbZofhEU
— πΊπΈ USMNT vs Haters (@USMNTvsHaters) December 10, 2022
oski003 said:
Question. I have a 6 year old son in so cal who is good at soccer and does really well in AYSO. What is the best way to develop his talent if he really likes to play?
tequila4kapp said:I'm the President of a high level club program. Different sport, different region. I get this type of question a good bit. My answer is to let 6 (or 8 or 10) year olds be kids for a while. During that time their love of the game will either grow or peter out. You cannot control that. It has to happen organically. If you push them too much too early the game becomes not fun and they quit and/or resent you. The balance you are looking for at this age is to get him into increasingly advanced play / training while still having fun. In my sport that usually means transitioning from public (rec) versions of the sport to club versions of the sport. But however you do it in soccer, continuously monitor to make sure proper skill advancement is paired with fun at least until, I don't know for soccer, maybe 12 or 13.oski003 said:
Question. I have a 6 year old son in so cal who is good at soccer and does really well in AYSO. What is the best way to develop his talent if he really likes to play?