Perhaps someone can explain to me how a member of Cal Football can be considered a saint one day, then considered the devil for abandoning the team the next all because he left to better himself, yet many others (Jackson, Lynch, Best are examples that come to mind) abandon the team to better themselves (read, "they showed me the money"<img src="<img src="<img src="<img src="" />" />" />"> and are praised?<br /><br />Cheers!

Ask Judas Iscariot, he had the same problem but got much less than Tosh....30 pieces of silver and no 5 star recruits...

And you left out telling your boss that his offer was good and you were through dealing w/ your new suitor.

We are a whimsical lot. Whatever Tosh did, he still was part of the Cal family and he is still a Cal alum. It's like your kid - if he went off and basically backed stabbed you or stole your money, are you shutting him off for the rest of your life? Possibly. And I have seen parents who've done that and I believe they've regretted it. Tosh did what he did. It sucks. I won't treat him like a pariah though. I disagree with his choice and it was slimey. But he's still Cal family to me. I'm just not into a vengeful disposition. And hopefully Tosh learns and sees this as a huge mistake in his life. But becoming this crazy scorned lover persona to him probably won't help him see the light. I know I am in the minority on this.

It's human nature! It's like trashing Jimmy Carter but not his brother Billy, who had a beer named after him. :beer:

Thanks all for explaining.<br />As for am I kidding.... ...perhaps.