<blockquote><div class="name-said">concordtom;693484 said:</div><hr>I am summarizing key points in your long post: <br /><br /><br /><br />And you want kids to make INFORMED decisions based on this? Would you want your kid to make a 4-5 year decision based on 2 meals and 3 hours at the school with the coaches and players? If so, I've got some land in Florida to sell you. I really appreciate your efforts to clean up the process, but this is nuts. How is a kid from Mississippi going to get a feel for a school in Arizona (for example). At age 17/18, they know nothing, and are as likely to be swayed by some base-level response mechanism (naked dancing women at the luncheon) as anything. Big decisions take a lot more time, and I would advise that the kids have as much time and information as they need. That said, I am not a proponent of activities that encourage base-level decision making, and so am glad you've taken up some arguments to curb them.<hr></blockquote><br /><br />I think having the ability to meet with prospective school personnel in your junior and senior years is helpful, as I suggested, and I think nothing prevents a kid from visiting a campus with family and friends all they want. I think official contact with a program should be limited, precisely because of the naked dancing women at lunch example. If schools and their recruiters feel they have to go off the reservation to sell a program to an impressionable 17/18 year old, then the system is flawed. What are you teaching the kids? Until you put in a very draconian, admittedly, rules structure in place, the schools won't take the rules seriously. Your investments, physician, attorney, kids' school, neighborhood, etc. all require time to get comfortable before making the right decision. And you should be able to do that via phone calls, emails, letters, in homes, HS visits and campus visits. PLENTY of opportunity there. And even with the current system, many kids, MANY kids, boot the original program and decide to go elsewhere and sit out for a year. So that's still going to happen, but I think talented kids in HS need to learn there's a different expectation of maturity and responsibility at the next level. They get a schollie, they get special tutorial services, class schedules, etc., they need to know that a commitment is a COMMITMENT. Or else, what are we coaching them in college, that it's ok to trample your word because your recruiter skipped town or your best buddy went to a rival? It's time for the NCAA and its members, to grow the hell up. And there's no better place to start than the recruiting process. It needs a thorough scrubbing.