blungld;841948168 said:
I was born in Columbus and both my parents went to Ohio State. I grew up watching them play every Saturday and loved the Buckeyes. I'd cry if they lost to Michigan. My fondest memories of childhood were laying on the sofa with my Dad and watching him be crazy during the games.
I went to Cal in '82. That first season I was shocked how I created my own identity and found a love for the Bears that exceeded my love for the Buckeyes. My Dad came to visit me for the first time for Big Game. We watched The Play live in Memorial and he was impressed. It was a delirious weekend where I both bonded with my Dad as an adult and split with him and expressed my own individual personality. I think he was delighted to see me as passionate about Cal as he was tOSU. From then I have been more obsessed than any sane person should reasonably be--surpassing my father's own craziness.
The years that followed we would kid each other each Sunday depending on how each team did and we preyed for a Rose Bowl match up. Then about ten years ago Cal and Ohio State agreed to this home and home. We couldn't believe it. We could hardly wait for the games. It was going to be our special trip together.
Seven years ago my Dad died in a horse riding accident and I have come to dread this day, because of its emotional significance. I am flying to Columbus with my brother. I'm going to sit with him and my Dad's brother. I'll say a prayer to my Dad and hope the Bears make a respectable showing. Can't believe the day is here and that I will actually see the Blue & Gold smashing into the Scarlet & Gray. It's going to be unreal.
Great story, blungld. I wish you well on what is sure to be an emotional trip!
I don't have any story that interesting, but I grew up a Michigan fan, as both of my parents attended UofM. Several years after graduating from Cal, I went back to Michigan to attend graduate school. So I've been a Michigan fan my whole life, and that bond was strengthened by attending school there. If Cal were to play Michigan, of course, I would root for Cal. (For a brief time it looked like that would happen at the 2005 Rose Bowl...sigh.)
Still, I'm not sure I ever want to see Cal play Michigan...it would be very strange for me to be rooting against Michigan. Of course, if that were to happen at a Rose Bowl, I'm sure I'd get over it.
This weekend, the interests of Cal fans and Michigan fans are perfectly aligned...one group wants to see Cal win and one wants to see tOSU lose.
GO BEARS!