A parent of a player PM'd several of us....

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pingpong2
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okaydo;842019061 said:

The parent provided me details about his/her son.

As for providing an image of a name tag or something, it's easy to get stuff like that on the web.

Berkeley students are constantly posting IDs and other things on Twitter and Instagram and Facebook.


Maybe something more obscure, like a jockstrap . Bonus points if the "jock" is in the shot.
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ayetee11;842019062 said:

Who are the insiders? The ones with the most posts?

As Bigelow's parent(lol), I would be smart enough to know passing this info on BI wouldn't solve anything.

It's like the girl saying she's pregnant after the break up.


Players and players relatives post here all the time. Why don't you let this play out and get more confirmation before dismissing certain posts as fictitious
Papitobear
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If ANY of this is true, it seems that Tedford was indeed burned out and didn't want to deal with all the BS and hoped that the machine was oiled enough to win games.

He was wrong and his lack of assertiveness sealed his fate. When you lose the locker room via losing, all this drama BS is difficult to correct. The program and Tedford needed a reset by separating.

Hope the next coach instills a TOUGH mentality and hold all athletes accountable.
ayetee11
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okaydo;842019061 said:

The parent provided me details about his/her son.


Would you try hard to prove to someone you don't know who your son is? I can get details on the teams website.
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tommie317;842019065 said:

Players and players relatives post here all the time. Why don't you let this play out and get more confirmation before dismissing certain posts as fictitious


Same can be said the other way around. Why don't you let this play out before believing they are true?
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ayetee11;842019062 said:

Who are the insiders? The ones with the most posts?

As Bigelow's parent(lol), I would be smart enough to know passing this info on BI wouldn't solve anything.

It's like the girl saying she's pregnant after the break up.


If someone like Moraga came out and back this, would you shut up?

If you did less yapping and more reading, you will see that someone who is an insider already backing this story. Post is on the first page.
tommie317
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ayetee11;842019069 said:

Same can be said the other way around. Why don't you let this play out before believing they are true?


And which post have I said that I have no doubt this is true? I just said it would make sense. Calm down.
heartofthebear
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okaydo;842018992 said:

...and I got permission from that parent to post this, though of course I can't confirm whether that poster really is a parent of a player or not.

I also blacked out a few sentences about a player who will be on our team next year.

The 2nd black bar is about Allen and weightlifting. I don't know why I blacked that out.





Coming from you Okaydo, this is about as valuable and revealing post I've read. It also matches my gut feeling.
Bear_Territory
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Who cares this is nothing to get in an argument about. Maynard Tedford and likely KA are all going to be gone by next year. Whatever happened happened nothing we can do about it now. Fresh start
davetdds
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Remeber when KA21 said ' we just don't know what's really going on". He was right. If this crap was going on then eff both of them,. I don't care how many ways you paint it. ZM was not a skilled D1 qb. His stats showed rthe same as Buffalo, he acted like a pouty kid, no leadership.
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cal98;842019070 said:

If someone like Moraga came out and back this, would you shut up?

If you did less yapping and more reading, you will see that someone who is an insider already backing this story. Post is on the first page.


Yes, JeffEarlWarren -- using his real name -- has been hearing the same things, as he said on the first page.

But somebody did PM me saying he knows a parent, who hasn't heard such things.
okaydo
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The parent just PM'd me a photo of the player's Cal football nametag with his name and number.

And a photo of his backpack with just his number.

ayetee11
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cal98;842019070 said:

If someone like Moraga came out and back this, would you shut up?

If you did less yapping and more reading, you will see that someone who is an insider already backing this story. Post is on the first page.


What makes him an insider? Because he said he heard it from other parents?

Do you guys realize there is still a family member of Allen on the team? He didn't quit on the team. He was jumped over by 3 true freshmen.

All this very well be true, but to believe it as fact until it has played out is just as crazy.

Thanks,
Mr Bigelow(I'm an insider now)
OskiMD
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There have now been 20 tweets (and 5 retweets) by KA since 11/20, the day of JT's firing, and not even a mention or shout out to his coach of three years losing his job.

And how about this tweet an hour ago to Dee Milliner (Alabama junior):

Quote:

@deemilliner solid y'all probably be right back there the way it's looking. But we was too weak this year.


Lol... yeah Cal was too weak this year because of your half brother playing QB.
OskiMD
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okaydo;842019077 said:


But somebody did PM me saying he knows a parent, who hasn't heard such things.


Probably ayetee11 or one of his numerous handles.
tommie317
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ayetee11;842019081 said:

What makes him an insider? Because he said he heard it from other parents?

Do you guys realize there is still a family member of Allen on the team? He didn't quit on the team. He was jumped over by 3 true freshmen.

All this very well be true, but to believe it as fact until it has played out is just as crazy.

Thanks,
Mr Bigelow(I'm an insider now)


You know people know each other in real life right? Its not just all virtual.
ayetee11
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My gut feeling says Allen just wanted the receptions record. I am happy he's gone if so, I just refuse to believe a parent would feel the need to pm a poster and go so far to send pictures to prove it.
ayetee11
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OskiMD;842019084 said:

Probably ayetee11 or one of his numerous handles.


Haha, numerous handles? I have the exact same name on TOS.
pingpong2
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The question now is: will any other players or parents come forward with information substantiating these claims?
BerlinerBaer
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Bear_Territory;842019074 said:

Who cares this is nothing to get in an argument about. Maynard Tedford and likely KA are all going to be gone by next year. Whatever happened happened nothing we can do about it now. Fresh start


I hope you're right.

If this is true then I would expect the problem won't depart with KA and ZM. If any remaining players don't shape up then the new coach should suspend them or kick them off the team. Don't be surprised if this happens.

The allegations about the team's study habits make me sick. Sanctions are the last thing this program needs.
ayetee11
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tommie317;842019086 said:

You know people know each other in real life right? Its not just all virtual.


Definitely, but still waiting to here why someone is trying so hard to prove who their son is and what is the benefit of sending a pm to posters?
tommie317
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BerlinerBaer;842019094 said:

I hope you're right.

If this is true then I would expect the problem won't depart with KA and ZM. If any remaining players don't shape up then the new coach should suspend them or kick them off the team. Don't be surprised if this happens.

The allegations about the team's study habits make me sick. Sanctions are the last thing this program needs.


If this is true, I blame sandy also for not keeping him in check. But I guess there's not much she can do since there is no buyout.
ayetee11
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pingpong2;842019093 said:

The question now is: will any other players or parents come forward with information substantiating these claims?


If they do, can I get a PM from them?
LethalFang
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ayetee11;842019081 said:

What makes him an insider? Because he said he heard it from other parents?

Do you guys realize there is still a family member of Allen on the team? He didn't quit on the team. He was jumped over by 3 true freshmen.

All this very well be true, but to believe it as fact until it has played out is just as crazy.

Thanks,
Mr Bigelow(I'm an insider now)


rathokan
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new coach needs to come in and kick some a$$ in the locker room and not take any sh!t from any players. this team was so undisciplined... made me wonder if anybody was in charge... sounds like nobody was.
socaliganbear
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Not news. Though I am surprised this parent went so far, this has been whispered around for a while.

Davidson, if you're around, remember our exchange a few months ago. Tip.Of.Iceberg.
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socaliganbear;842019104 said:

Not news. Though I am surprised this parent went so far, this has been whispered around for a while.

Davidson, if you're around, remember our exchange a few months ago. Tip.Of.Iceberg.


Yep, once you gave me that little tidbit, and then confirmed my hunch, it was plain as day. Although I can't say I thought it went as deep as it has been detailed here. In retrospect, it explains everything.

Not surprised though, this type of stuff is almost unavoidable on teams with bad leadership. Tedford reaks of a coach that was too comfortable or burnt out or just going through the motions (no doubt about it, really flying around out there, no question, a paralysis by analysis).

In the end, it's always darkest before the dawn. With a new coach, may hope spring eternal. Go Bears!
egbear82
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I spent this evening sitting with a Cal player and his parents watching a high school playoff game and heard things that are consistent with what is said in this thread.. In addition, I asked how Klein looks and was told no-one knows as only the first and second string QB gets any reps. Klein asked if he could be on the scout team so he could get some playing in but was told "no" because they needed him to signal in plays. The sentiment of the players was that Maynard shouldn't have been a starter at any PAC-12 school and everyone was disgusted by it.. Many players didn't want tedford to get fired due to them losing their position coaches, but it makes you wonder how much they actually liked his coaching..
beeasyed
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i don't know if this is true (what Okaydo reposted from the PM), but let me just say that NO PLAYER is bigger than the program. i don't care if he is the best WR we've had since Desean, or even if it was Desean himself. i wouldn't want a f*ckin cancer in our locker room causing internal conflict and distrust going on over picking sides.

if this is true, it's a disgrace and i am glad that the man who should've been in charge is now gone.
OskiMD
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beeasyed;842019119 said:


if this is true, it's a disgrace and i am glad that the man who should've been in charge is now gone.


Let's hope the admins wait for the dust to settle before making any decisions about Tedford's statue.
bear2034
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Whatever, what's the point in posting this negative stuff now?
calbear75
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This verifies many of the theories a lot of us had over the years, but who were bashed for not having any evidence, not being on the team, and just being negative. This was the same behavior and locker room division that happened with Ayoob and Desean in 05, again in 07 with Longshore and Riley, and now ZM and Bridge.

JT tried every year with the Team Matters and accountability themes, but clearly, some bought into it, and some tuned it out. JT was too weak trying to fix it, especially when those players didn't respect him.

SB did the right thing by letting JT go, and I'm certain she knew of what was going down already. Now we need someone who can cut thru the BS and hold the fort strong. If that pisses off the prima donnas, then that is fine too.
beeasyed
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oskirules;842019129 said:

Whatever, what's the point in posting this negative stuff now?


what's the point?? it sheds light on another problem within the program, and hopefully we'll LEARN from it so that it never happens again.

you would rather not know? feel free to bury your head in the sand.



this thread is making me rethink what i said earlier this season about my impression that KA was not giving it all at times, felt like he was being lazy on routes. now i don't sound so crazy after all.
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BerlinerBaer;842019021 said:

The thing that worries me is if the declining APR we've seen so far is just the tip of the iceberg. We only have data from the players who came in before 2005.

I also worry it will be too late for the future coach to prevent sanctions. :headbang

We have APR data up to 2011. A new coach would not need to do much to stay ahead of sanctions.

What are you talking about?
Phantomfan
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It occurred to me just now; when was the last time someone claimed Tedford was doing it "the right way?"

Anyone who has not been swinging from his nuts between 2007 and now sees nothing new in this thread... Tedford teams were completely undisciplined and at Cal to play bad football. The last 5 years at least have been a Charlie Foxtrot of "doing it wrong."
 
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