I agree with everything you said, including those who are very much Waitin' on a Sonny Day!
I guess I feel like there are those who are Junior Sports Talk Show Wannabees, (or Sports Investigative Reporter Wannabees)that if there is a a door open even a little, they want to jump on the negative. Like, "its Cal, of course someone or something is F-ed up", even though they themselves are fans.
That isn't to say a Cal fan can't be critical, and its interesting back and forth discourse (which most of would rather be doing over a foamy beverage) on many a thread. Nor am I saying someone is instantly a "Negabear" for being critical...just don't do it over bull crap stuff...
I'll get slammed now for "what right do I have to criticize what someone criticizes" but whatever...