Rushinbear;842321052 said:
Thank you, one and all. I have passed along your thoughts to my daughter who will take it from here.
I am staying away from direct conversation about this unless asked. My granddaughter has two other sets of grandparents, all well-educated. Each of them has been unabashedly selling their school to her and the onslaught has become overwhelming. So, in the interest of reducing the pressure and according her the space to make her own decision, my daughter is serving as the go-between. Seems to be working better; maybe not in as timely a way, but what good is impatience anyway?
I appreciate the time you took to give such thoughtful feedback.
Coming all the way to CA for college is a big decision since so many people have misconceptions of NorCal and SoCal.
She should fly out to California for a few days. One day in NorCal (visiting Cal) and one day in SoCa (visiting UCLA and one of the Claremont Colleges)
and maybe one day visiting Cal Poly or UC San Diego.
It would give her the chance to get away and see things "up close and personal". Each of the campuses mentioned above is very different from each of the other campuses.
You would be surprised how inexpensive it can be to fly from Oakland to LAX (or nearby airports).
I did the same thing with one son who was enamored by the idea of going to college at Northwestern, Notre Dame or Georgetown. [He ultimately chose to go to Cal.]