Nasal Mucus Goldenbear;842553608 said:
Why would wife #1 and her children ever consider welcoming him back under that scenario? That is the original issue raised by OP. Your tangents are irrelevant to that question at hand and only serve to defend Tra$h's unethical actions.
Wow. Reading comprehension problems?
Saying that lots of coaches hire unethical assistants is not a "tangent" in this discussion. Tedford did it. Sonny did it. Mora did it. Saban did it.
When a coach does something unethical that leaves his team in a bad position, then that is a problem. Ingram certainly falls into this category. We gave up the best RB coach in Pac-10/12 history to bring him onboard. Then we were left holding the bag when he made unethical choices, after the assistant coaching market had already reshuffled for the year. His unethical actions hurt our team. He was also a pretty good recruiter by all accounts.
Clearly there is a difference in terms of degree between what Sandusky, Tosh, Ingram, and Klemm have done. Neither Tosh nor Ingram are the worst by any stretch of the imagination. But all four of these assistant coaches have hurt their teams and universities through unethical behavior.
I am not defending Tosh's actions as ethical by any means. And I don't want him back. I've made that abundantly clear. So settle down.
I'm just saying he is a superior recruiter than anyone we have on staff. Sonny needs to go out and hire MUCH better recruiters when he inevitably reshuffles the staff at the end of the season.