bearister;842617795 said:
When I was growing up this would have been worked out in the parking lot. Water polo players were tough guy cheap shot artists in the pool but I never knew one who could fight worth a sh*t.
CAL6371;842618003 said:
Well, my alma mater (Acalanes) was always tougher than Campolindo or Miramonte - that's where the rich weaklings lived.
bearister;842618056 said:
..and the boys in Oakland thought everyone that lived on the other side of the tunnel was a major pussie.
MilleniaBear;842618063 said:
Lol...but not in football!
Bears2thDoc;842618076 said:
On a serious note....
The parents out there should be paying as much attention to their kid outside of athletics as in....
One of my friends is an addiction doctor in CCCo.
His patients are primarily kids between 12 and 20.........heroine and meth.
He says both of those drugs are easily acquired at any middle or high school in Orinda, Moraga, Lafayette. Walnut Creek, Pleasant Hill, Concord, Alamo, Danville and San Ramon.
"the kids get the stuff, then sit in their Range Rover or BMW and shoot up or smoke."
concordtom;842618117 said:
Could it be that there are plenty of kids on the western side of the hill that do the same thing, just not in high end vehicles? And don't have the parental $ or attention to put them into programs?
Sorry, but your post has the potential to be MERELY stereotypical.
Not saying it's not a problem. IT IS. Just trying to put it into context. I've heard it my whole life, and I can tell you the issue was WORSE at Montera than at MHS! Had I continued to Skyline, well, I'm glad I didn't.
No, I did not do drugs. At either place.
Quote:
1905 - Allan Loney is charged with manslaughter in the on-ice clubbing death of Alcide Laurin. Loney claimed self-defence, and was found not guilty.[5]
1907 - Ottawa Senators players Harry Smith, Alf Smith and Charles Spittal were charged with assault after beating Montreal Wanderers players, Hod Stuart, Ernie "Moose" Johnson and Cecil Blatchford with their sticks.
1907 - Ottawa Victorias player Charles Masson is charged with manslaughter after Cornwall player Owen McCourt dies of a head wound sustained in a brawl. Masson is found not guilty on the grounds that there was no way to know which blow had killed McCourt.[6]
1922 - Sprague Cleghorn injured three Ottawa Senators players in a brawl, leading Ottawa police to offer to arrest him.
1969 - In a pre-season game held in Ottawa, Ted Green of the Boston Bruins and Wayne Maki of the St.Louis Blues engaged in a violent, stick-swinging brawl. A fractured skull and brain damage caused Green to miss the entire 19691970 NHL season.[7] The NHL suspended Maki for 30 days and Green for 13 games. Both men were acquitted in court.
1975 - Dan Maloney of the Detroit Red Wings was charged with assault causing bodily harm after he attacked Brian Glennie of the Toronto Maple Leafs from behind. In exchange for a no-contest plea, Maloney did community service work and was banned from playing in Toronto for two seasons.
1975 - Police charged Bruins player Dave Forbes with aggravated assault after a fight with Henry Boucha of the Minnesota North Stars. After a nine-day trial ended with a hung jury, charges against Forbes were dropped. Boucha suffered blurred vision from the incident and never fully recovered.
1976 - Philadelphia Flyers players Joe Watson, Mel Bridgman, Don Saleski and Bob "Hound" Kelly were charged with assault after using their hockey sticks as weapons in a violent playoff game between the Flyers and the Toronto Maple Leafs in which fans had been taunting the Flyers players and spitting at them. Bridgman was acquitted, but the other three Flyers were found guilty of simple assault.
1976 - Calgary Cowboys forward Rick Jodzio plead guilty to a charge of assault following a cross-check to the head of Quebec Nordiques player Marc Tardif during the World Hockey Association playoffs. The hit led to a 20-minute bench clearing brawl.[8]
1977 - Dave "Tiger" Williams of the Toronto Maple Leafs hit Pittsburgh Penguin Dennis Owchar with his stick. He was charged with assault, but acquitted.
1982 - Jimmy Mann of the Winnipeg Jets left the bench and sucker-punched Pittsburgh Penguin Paul Gardner, breaking Gardner's jaw in two places. Mann was fined $500 and given a suspended sentence in Winnipeg.
1988 - Dino Ciccarelli hit Leafs defenceman Luke Richardson with his stick. Charged and convicted of assault, he was sentenced to one day in jail and fined $1,000.
1998 - Jesse Boulerice of the Plymouth Whalers was suspended for the rest of the playoffs after violently swinging his stick at Guelph Storm forward Andrew Long. Boulerice was charged with assault as a result of the incident.
2000 - Marty McSorley of the Boston Bruins hit Vancouver Canuck Donald Brashear in the head with his stick in the waning moments of the game, after losing a fight to Brashear earlier in the game. McSorley was convicted of assault with a weapon and given an 18-month conditional discharge.
2004 - In the Todd Bertuzzi - Steve Moore incident, Bertuzzi of the Vancouver Canucks sucker-punched Steve Moore of the Colorado Avalanche in the back of the head, knocking Moore unconscious. The pair then fell to the ice with Bertuzzi's weight crushing Moore face-first into the ice, followed by several players from both teams further piling onto the mle. Moore sustained three fractured vertebrae, a grade three concussion, vertebral ligament damage, stretching of the brachial plexus nerves, and facial lacerations. Bertuzzi was charged by police, and given a conditional discharge after pleading guilty to assault causing bodily harm. His suspension resulted in a loss of $500,000 in pay and the Canucks were fined $250,000. Bertuzzi was re-instated in 2005; Moore has not played since and made several unsuccessful attempts at civil litigation.
Bears2thDoc;842618150 said:
I'm curious....
"No, I did not do drugs. At either place."
So how do you know one place was worse than the other?
Also, I don't recall singling out any one school.
I do recall using the word "any", which includes the private one's.
This is what I do know....
My friend only accepts private pay patients, no insurance.
He does this for one reason......
Using insurance causes one to be "marked" for the rest of their life as a drug user/abuser.....they already screwed up and sought treatment, why screw them for life by having it in their "permanent" file for future employers, insurers to see.
He tends to get his patients free from the addiction, not always.
It's foolish to think that one area is any more free of this than another.
It starts in the burbs with prescription drugs (oxy, vicodin, valium, etc.).
One typical narcotic prescription of 20 tablets is worth almost $1000 on the school yard.
Oxy and vicodin are HIGHLY addictive.
Once a kid gets hooked on those, they can't afford to keep up that habit, so they move to the cheaper heroine and meth.
Keep your head in the sand if you want, but the problem is still there.
norcal_bear;842617782 said:
http://www.sfgate.com/crime/article/Bay-Area-athlete-15-charged-with-felony-over-6700824.php
bearister;842617795 said:
When I was growing up this would have been worked out in the parking lot. Water polo players were tough guy cheap shot artists in the pool but I never knew one who could fight worth a sh*t.
Beardog26;842618175 said:
with your gratuitous reference to high end vehicles thrown in for good measure....... while needlessly adding reference to car make and models, indicates you have an agenda.
mcdbear;842618213 said:
Must have known a whole different set of water polo players than I did. Then again it's easy make bold comments hidden behind a computer screen
bearister;842618221 said:
Let me guess, you grew up in the suburbs and played lacrosse or water polo and you fantasized you were a tough guy and I have offended your manhood with my comments. I have no doubt that water polo players were the toughest guys in suburbia. I spent a lot of time at Cal trying to coach my fraternity brothers that grew up through the tunnel how to act in Berkeley and Oakland because their arrogance did not play well on the streets. They were absolutely clueless.
Bears2thDoc;842618219 said:
I might point out, the Range Rover comment was in quotations. I didn't say it, my friend did.
Never said it was unique to Lamorinda either.
I have no agenda.
Good that your talking with your daughter.
http://www.webmd.com/mental-health/addiction/news/20140528/todays-heroin-abusers-often-middle-class-suburbanites-study
Cheers!
KJFan;842618185 said:
My son plays water polo so I received the email. While I agree with the general premise that criminal prosecution should not be used except in exceptional cases, the way the email was worded caused me to pause and think that there must be more to this than the authors were letting on. Had they just given me the facts I would have much more respect and empathy for their cause. However, now I would not support simply them because I can't trust them.
I also received another email from the CEO of USA Water Polo denouncing the prior email, stating that it wasn't authorized by USA Water Polo and that the sender had no business sending the email in his official capacity as a USA Water Polo employee.
Beardog26;842618239 said:
Convenient. I might point out that you didn't have to include that portion of your quote to make your point. Yet you felt to compelled to do so, like you felt compelled to lecture parents in this community on the need to focus their parental efforts on an area other than sports, as if that is the only thing this community is concerned with. Sure, no agenda.
Have typically appreciated your posts through the years but today wasn't your best.
BearGoggles;842618245 said:
I have no idea what you are trying to say. Who sent the misleading email and how was it misleading? Or better yet, post both emails.
I haven't seen the video, but I know a prosecutor (who doesn't work in Contra Costa County) who has. Says if it happened any place other than in a competitive athletic event, it would be a no-brainer. A guy intentionally kicks or knees someone in the face, breaks his nose, a pretty slam dunk case. The email said "the opposing player's nose was inadvertently broken." The guy who saw the video said, "The accused may not have intended to break his nose, but if you intentionally hit a guy hard in the face, it doesn't really matter if you intended to break his nose. It is assault and battery. The email is misleading, it doesn't acknowledge the intent of the act and the vicious nature of the act."CAL6371;842618478 said:
. . . but you have to see all the evidence the DA has, which none of us has seen.