Another Bear said:
This thread is why Cal can't have nice things.
It sucks that Cal's acting program is so pathetic when we have Chris Pine, John Cho, that old lady from Titanic and that dude from that Mockingbird movie as alums.
Another Bear said:
This thread is why Cal can't have nice things.
Don't forget the Beav!okaydo said:
It sucks that Cal's acting program is so pathetic when we have Chris Pine, John Cho, that old lady from Titanic and that dude from that Mockingbird movie as alums.
You know very well that Buffy and Oz attended UC Sunnydale in Season 4, not UC Berkeley.okaydo said:
Man, UC Berkeley was so great in the 90s.
Sebastabear said:You know very well that Buffy and Oz attended UC Sunnydale in Season 4, not UC Berkeley.okaydo said:
Man, UC Berkeley was so great in the 90s.
okaydo said:Sebastabear said:You know very well that Buffy and Oz attended UC Sunnydale in Season 4, not UC Berkeley.okaydo said:
Man, UC Berkeley was so great in the 90s.
Sebastabear said:okaydo said:Sebastabear said:You know very well that Buffy and Oz attended UC Sunnydale in Season 4, not UC Berkeley.okaydo said:
Man, UC Berkeley was so great in the 90s.
So? Are you not familiar with the UC-Sunnydale Sather gate?
Cal8285 said:So are you suggesting that your direct approach is a load of simplistic crap that many people would say isn't true?71Bear said:Yes, I saw the movie....GMP said:71Bear said:OTOH, some of us subscribe to the direct approach - don't mince words, say what you have to say and move on. The notion of treading lightly to avoid conflict is a load of crap. What was it that Jack Nicholson said to Tom Cruise?OdontoBear66 said:You hit the mark BG...I would dearly love the ability to dissent, but it comes to how you do it.BearGoggles said:71Bear said:No problem. Quite frankly, what has made this site the place it is has become is the variety of opinions expressed by the posters. While it is not what it once was (RIP, Grey), it is still the "go-to" place for conversation about Cal athletics. The day it becomes a lock-step "Cal is perfect, dissenters not wanted" is the day I'll step away. Fortunately, with voices like Yogi and Blue, we are still a ways from that day.KenBurnski said:
Nobody:
71Bear: I DISAGREE
Your original response (minimizing the fact that Cal is unique in having 3 high draft picks) was not a differing opinion. It was just a negative nelly response to something that, unequivocally, Cal fans can and should take pride in and want to publicize. Why the immediate negative reaction/comment?
I love the fact that dissenters have a place here. But oftentimes, people confuse dissent and debate for being curmudgeonly and knee jerk negative. When something good happens (high draft picks), why do you feel the need to immediately respond with a totally unrelated negative point?
I can agree with 71Bear at times in context, but the way he expresses comes off not too well.
The old expression "It is not necessarily what you say, but how you say it."
You know his character set in motion a murder, covered it up, and was arrested right after that, right?
Since you saw the movie, you know that Jack Nicholson said to Tom Cruise that he can't handle the truth, and then said his "truth"-- "Santiago's death while tragic, probably saved lives; and my existence while grotesque, and incomprehensible, to you, saves lives. You don't want the truth because deep down in places you don't talk about at parties, you want me on that well, you need me on that wall!"
While difficult to be sure what a fictional character is thinking, I suspect most of the characters and much (not all) of the audience listening to Jessup, and screenwriter Aaron Sorkin, think that what he said is not the truth. Santiago's death probably didn't save lives, overall, Jessup's existence probably doesn't save lives. We don't want him on that wall, we don't need him on that wall. I suspect that Aaron Sorkin would tell you that people of honor will not agree that what Jessup said is "truth." Odd for you to cite Jessup in support of your position.
However, your "truth" is a very different "truth" from that of Jessup, because you responded to something that Cal accomplished with an undisputable truth, things that Cal has not accomplished. Unlike Jessup's statement, we can't really argue that what you said isn't true.
But it isn't like we can't handle the truth, or don't know the truth. Oh no, Cal fans know the truth all too well. And we frequently acknowledge that truth, sometimes depressingly and sometimes jokingly, Which is why we need to focus on the victories once in awhile, however meaningless they may be.
Of course, OF COURSE, everything positive that Cal has accomplished in my lifetime can be responded to with more significant things Cal has not accomplished. We ALL know that. But we're Cal fans anyway. Part of how we handle the truth is to focus on the small positives, even if in a rational world, they don't make up for the negatives. If we don't do that, we'll end up as old grumps, perhaps even old grumps who don't bother to go to games anymore because we no longer find that the positives we get out of going give us enough joy to make it worth going.
If you always want to throw cold water on what others wish to celebrate with respect to Cal athletics, the truth will pretty much always allow that. You have a choice to respond with over a thousand different truths, or respond with silence. Sometimes, in the response to a Cal fan trying desperately to find a win, desiring not to become an unhappy old grump, it is better to either respond with another positive truth or to just stay silent.
I'd rather be silent once in awhile than be a grump who needs to throw cold water immediately whenever anyone else wants to be happy about something Cal. "I'm not happy, so I'm going to do my damnedest to make sure everyone else sees the truths that make me unhappy, and then they all can be unhappy like me." Damn, I sure don't want to be that grump.
Even if I become a total grump in the future, I hope I don't feel the need to help create other grumps. There are times when it is appropriate to respond to something positive with a negative counterpoint, but a big part of wisdom is knowing when that moment is, and when it is the moment to stay silent. I do not always have that wisdom, but I try.
Thanks for this upbeat post of yours and the other folks on this board that do so. I am a random lurker whose only connection to Cal was this board for years (as I was deployed - at-sea - and could not get other websites to load.) This occurred through two sea-tours and countless months at sea.Quote:
I am basically an optimistic person and like to look on the bright side. This does not mean that I don't realize there are negative things. Just why should I waste my time on them. Life's too short.
You mean right before he got put under arrest for being an *******, coward, law breaker?71Bear said:
OTOH, some of us subscribe to the direct approach - don't mince words, say what you have to say and move on. The notion of treading lightly to avoid conflict is a load of crap. What was it that Jack Nicholson said to Tom Cruise?
Cal8285 said:So are you suggesting that your direct approach is a load of simplistic crap that many people would say isn't true?71Bear said:Yes, I saw the movie....GMP said:71Bear said:OTOH, some of us subscribe to the direct approach - don't mince words, say what you have to say and move on. The notion of treading lightly to avoid conflict is a load of crap. What was it that Jack Nicholson said to Tom Cruise?OdontoBear66 said:You hit the mark BG...I would dearly love the ability to dissent, but it comes to how you do it.BearGoggles said:71Bear said:No problem. Quite frankly, what has made this site the place it is has become is the variety of opinions expressed by the posters. While it is not what it once was (RIP, Grey), it is still the "go-to" place for conversation about Cal athletics. The day it becomes a lock-step "Cal is perfect, dissenters not wanted" is the day I'll step away. Fortunately, with voices like Yogi and Blue, we are still a ways from that day.KenBurnski said:
Nobody:
71Bear: I DISAGREE
Your original response (minimizing the fact that Cal is unique in having 3 high draft picks) was not a differing opinion. It was just a negative nelly response to something that, unequivocally, Cal fans can and should take pride in and want to publicize. Why the immediate negative reaction/comment?
I love the fact that dissenters have a place here. But oftentimes, people confuse dissent and debate for being curmudgeonly and knee jerk negative. When something good happens (high draft picks), why do you feel the need to immediately respond with a totally unrelated negative point?
I can agree with 71Bear at times in context, but the way he expresses comes off not too well.
The old expression "It is not necessarily what you say, but how you say it."
You know his character set in motion a murder, covered it up, and was arrested right after that, right?
Since you saw the movie, you know that Jack Nicholson said to Tom Cruise that he can't handle the truth, and then said his "truth"-- "Santiago's death while tragic, probably saved lives; and my existence while grotesque, and incomprehensible, to you, saves lives. You don't want the truth because deep down in places you don't talk about at parties, you want me on that well, you need me on that wall!"
While difficult to be sure what a fictional character is thinking, I suspect most of the characters and much (not all) of the audience listening to Jessup, and screenwriter Aaron Sorkin, think that what he said is not the truth. Santiago's death probably didn't save lives, overall, Jessup's existence probably doesn't save lives. We don't want him on that wall, we don't need him on that wall. I suspect that Aaron Sorkin would tell you that people of honor will not agree that what Jessup said is "truth." Odd for you to cite Jessup in support of your position.
However, your "truth" is a very different "truth" from that of Jessup, because you responded to something that Cal accomplished with an undisputable truth, things that Cal has not accomplished. Unlike Jessup's statement, we can't really argue that what you said isn't true.
But it isn't like we can't handle the truth, or don't know the truth. Oh no, Cal fans know the truth all too well. And we frequently acknowledge that truth, sometimes depressingly and sometimes jokingly, Which is why we need to focus on the victories once in awhile, however meaningless they may be.
Of course, OF COURSE, everything positive that Cal has accomplished in my lifetime can be responded to with more significant things Cal has not accomplished. We ALL know that. But we're Cal fans anyway. Part of how we handle the truth is to focus on the small positives, even if in a rational world, they don't make up for the negatives. If we don't do that, we'll end up as old grumps, perhaps even old grumps who don't bother to go to games anymore because we no longer find that the positives we get out of going give us enough joy to make it worth going.
If you always want to throw cold water on what others wish to celebrate with respect to Cal athletics, the truth will pretty much always allow that. You have a choice to respond with over a thousand different truths, or respond with silence. Sometimes, in the response to a Cal fan trying desperately to find a win, desiring not to become an unhappy old grump, it is better to either respond with another positive truth or to just stay silent.
I'd rather be silent once in awhile than be a grump who needs to throw cold water immediately whenever anyone else wants to be happy about something Cal. "I'm not happy, so I'm going to do my damnedest to make sure everyone else sees the truths that make me unhappy, and then they all can be unhappy like me." Damn, I sure don't want to be that grump.
Even if I become a total grump in the future, I hope I don't feel the need to help create other grumps. There are times when it is appropriate to respond to something positive with a negative counterpoint, but a big part of wisdom is knowing when that moment is, and when it is the moment to stay silent. I do not always have that wisdom, but I try.
I'm a distinct minority on this board, but not for the reason people think. But this board has always been teetering on the edge of being a booster club rather than a discussion forum, which is the reason why I'll never again be the paying customer I once was. I spend my money where I can say what I mean without having it parsed by other people to be something it's not, just as they did with you in this thread.71Bear said:No problem. Quite frankly, what has made this site the place it is has become is the variety of opinions expressed by the posters. While it is not what it once was (RIP, Grey), it is still the "go-to" place for conversation about Cal athletics. The day it becomes a lock-step "Cal is perfect, dissenters not wanted" is the day I'll step away. Fortunately, with voices like Yogi and Blue, we are still a ways from that day.KenBurnski said:
Nobody:
71Bear: I DISAGREE
You mean like starting a thread about the racial composition of our athletic departments' head coaches?NavyBear said:Thanks for this upbeat post of yours and the other folks on this board that do so. I am a random lurker whose only connection to Cal was this board for years (as I was deployed - at-sea - and could not get other websites to load.) This occurred through two sea-tours and countless months at sea.Quote:
I am basically an optimistic person and like to look on the bright side. This does not mean that I don't realize there are negative things. Just why should I waste my time on them. Life's too short.
I am just selecting your post to respond to, but I can probably pull a dozen others that are current in both hoops and football. Truly appreciate the info posts and the highlight posts (like yours.)
That said, the folks who are bitter and who bring up politics in non-OT boards really poison the well. Granted I have a love-hate relation with Cal, but I have always recognized it as a special place. Folks who make things personal, who have big egos, and/or turn their cannons on each other, I just don't get.
Truth. Also Blue provides a lot of information regarding the outstanding Mountain West Conference Football teams, which I used to totally ignore. Now, if their football games on on TV, I'll use them for commercial time filler while I'm watching something else.71Bear said:
Fortunately, with voices like Yogi and Blue, we are still a ways from that day.
Yogi Bear said:You mean like starting a thread about the racial composition of our athletic departments' head coaches?NavyBear said:Thanks for this upbeat post of yours and the other folks on this board that do so. I am a random lurker whose only connection to Cal was this board for years (as I was deployed - at-sea - and could not get other websites to load.) This occurred through two sea-tours and countless months at sea.Quote:
I am basically an optimistic person and like to look on the bright side. This does not mean that I don't realize there are negative things. Just why should I waste my time on them. Life's too short.
I am just selecting your post to respond to, but I can probably pull a dozen others that are current in both hoops and football. Truly appreciate the info posts and the highlight posts (like yours.)
That said, the folks who are bitter and who bring up politics in non-OT boards really poison the well. Granted I have a love-hate relation with Cal, but I have always recognized it as a special place. Folks who make things personal, who have big egos, and/or turn their cannons on each other, I just don't get.
It also is a thread that discounts the observed perception is false with regards to Cal historically. We have and have had diversity. That moment in time reflects a false perception of Cal athletics in attitude toward diversity.GivemTheAxe said:Yogi Bear said:You mean like starting a thread about the racial composition of our athletic departments' head coaches?NavyBear said:Thanks for this upbeat post of yours and the other folks on this board that do so. I am a random lurker whose only connection to Cal was this board for years (as I was deployed - at-sea - and could not get other websites to load.) This occurred through two sea-tours and countless months at sea.Quote:
I am basically an optimistic person and like to look on the bright side. This does not mean that I don't realize there are negative things. Just why should I waste my time on them. Life's too short.
I am just selecting your post to respond to, but I can probably pull a dozen others that are current in both hoops and football. Truly appreciate the info posts and the highlight posts (like yours.)
That said, the folks who are bitter and who bring up politics in non-OT boards really poison the well. Granted I have a love-hate relation with Cal, but I have always recognized it as a special place. Folks who make things personal, who have big egos, and/or turn their cannons on each other, I just don't get.
Disagree. The thread on the lack of diversity among Cal's HC's is more of a "Cal can do better" thread than a "Cal is terrible" thread.
Even the people most critical of certain hires did not say they were not going to support the Cal team in question
Thanks for this tidbit; I'd never heard that. So Steve Levy didn't pull a "Levy" against TAMU. He pulled a "Bottari."SFCityBear said:
The game was won on 4th and goal with Cal up 7-0, and coach Stub Ellison sent in a play. The Bears said no, they sent the play back and ran their own play for Bottari and he scored, sealing the win.
I'm having a brain cramp. What was the Levy play? I don't seem to remember it.FuzzyWuzzy said:Thanks for this tidbit; I'd never heard that. So Steve Levy didn't pull a "Levy" against TAMU. He pulled a "Bottari."SFCityBear said:
The game was won on 4th and goal with Cal up 7-0, and coach Stub Ellison sent in a play. The Bears said no, they sent the play back and ran their own play for Bottari and he scored, sealing the win.
Did Coach Ellison ream out Vic on the sideline after the score?
The Levy Play: It was at the end of the 2006 Holiday Bowl against Texas A&M. This was Steve's redshirt senior year IIRC. We were winning the game handily, with the ball on the goal line with time running down. A number of our backups who rarely played were in the game, including Levy and a walk-on running back whose name escapes me. Tedford called for victory formation, with Levy taking a knee. Levy instead called a running play to our walk-on running back, who scored a TD, probably the only TD of his career. The crowd erupts, the band plays, the cheerleaders cheer. Levy and Co. jog back to the sideline, pretty happy with themselves. But Tedford is livid at the insubordination. He grabs Steve by the facemark on the sideline and chews him out on national TV.SFCityBear said:I'm having a brain cramp. What was the Levy play? I don't seem to remember it.FuzzyWuzzy said:Thanks for this tidbit; I'd never heard that. So Steve Levy didn't pull a "Levy" against TAMU. He pulled a "Bottari."SFCityBear said:
The game was won on 4th and goal with Cal up 7-0, and coach Stub Ellison sent in a play. The Bears said no, they sent the play back and ran their own play for Bottari and he scored, sealing the win.
Did Coach Ellison ream out Vic on the sideline after the score?
As for Ellison chewing out Bottari, I doubt it. My father told me that story. He went to every home game of the Thunder Team, and also went to the Rose Bowl. He said that Ellison was not a very good coach, and according to my dad, several times during the season, the players sent plays back and ran their own play instead.
Thanks FuzzyWuzzy. I did watch that game. I loved Steve Levy, and thought he should have been given a real shot at the QB job, as we always seemed to play well and won with him at the helm. I remember the play now that you describe but did not remember the controversy. I must have been celebrating or turned off the TV and missed the Tedford tirade. I know I was not aware of the Bear Insider in 2006, or I would have heard about it. Tedford had a similar tirade with Riley, after playing a great game as a freshman, but screwed up the final play.FuzzyWuzzy said:The Levy Play: It was at the end of the 2006 Holiday Bowl against Texas A&M. This was Steve's redshirt senior year IIRC. We were winning the game handily, with the ball on the goal line with time running down. A number of our backups who rarely played were in the game, including Levy and a walk-on running back whose name escapes me. Tedford called for victory formation, with Levy taking a knee. Levy instead called a running play to our walk-on running back, who scored a TD, probably the only TD of his career. The crowd erupts, the band plays, the cheerleaders cheer. Levy and Co. jog back to the sideline, pretty happy with themselves. But Tedford is livid at the insubordination. He grabs Steve by the facemark on the sideline and chews him out on national TV.SFCityBear said:I'm having a brain cramp. What was the Levy play? I don't seem to remember it.FuzzyWuzzy said:Thanks for this tidbit; I'd never heard that. So Steve Levy didn't pull a "Levy" against TAMU. He pulled a "Bottari."SFCityBear said:
The game was won on 4th and goal with Cal up 7-0, and coach Stub Ellison sent in a play. The Bears said no, they sent the play back and ran their own play for Bottari and he scored, sealing the win.
Did Coach Ellison ream out Vic on the sideline after the score?
As for Ellison chewing out Bottari, I doubt it. My father told me that story. He went to every home game of the Thunder Team, and also went to the Rose Bowl. He said that Ellison was not a very good coach, and according to my dad, several times during the season, the players sent plays back and ran their own play instead.
After that play, we had some good debates here about chain of command, military discipline, respecting your opponent, running up the score, rewarding walk-ons with scoring opportunities, etc. (Levy was himself originally a walk-on, I believe.)
okaydo said:Another Bear said:
This thread is why Cal can't have nice things.
It sucks that Cal's acting program is so pathetic when we have Chris Pine, John Cho, that old lady from Titanic and that dude from that Mockingbird movie as alums.