concordtom said:
SFCityBear said:
joe amos yaks said:
LB Bosa would fit SF's "Rustbelt" ownership.
Or maybe he should switch to baseball and play for the Giants' ownership.
Whatever happened to the days when a number of athletes played TWO professional sports? Why would this be hard to do? Many football players are specialists, and only play a few plays per game. Baseball players don't have to stay in great shape. I watched a game last season and I saw a player who appeared to be asleep in the dugout. And basketball has so many timeouts and substitutions, players can't be getting too tired. When we were kids, we all played three or more sports, and the best athletes were usually good in all three. Today, I hardly ever see kids playing in the streets or even in the playgrounds anymore. I mean, are cell phones really all that interesting and exciting?
Sorry, but I will pull rank on you here.
Kids today practice WAAAAAY more than in my era or your era.
At my daughters' high school, the football players show up at 6:45 for before school workouts. Class at 8, and period 1 is, you guessed it - football until 9:20. They have 3 more core classes plus lunch and study hall until class gets out at 3. After school it's football until 6. That's about 5:30 of football per day vs about 4 of actual school.
Sports used to be an "extracurricular" activity. Now it's the main thing.
Kids are encouraged to specialize in sports at a young age. Soccer is year round. Ballet is no different.
It's not healthy and a joke. But if you don't commit, you won't keep up and make the squad of your desire, unless you are a total and complete stud at age 12.
As that guy from Ohio State said a few years ago, "We ain't come here for school."
I don't always agree with CT, but he nailed it this time. However, adding a couple of points from my experience raising kids in Moraga:
1. This singular focus on sports predates the cell phone era - or at least the point where kids had tablets or phones.
2. The sports focus has also made the disparity between 'rec' and 'competitive' so large that a 10 year old, with moderate field vision, gets bored and frustrated playing in the rec level, then gets overwhelmed and discouraged (for not committing enough) at the competitive level. Not enough middle-ground to encourage exercise, teamwork and balance IMHO. The days of shooting hoops on the playground and pick up games is gone in suburbia.
3. I was actually berated more than once in Moraga for letting my kids out in the neighborhood without direct supervision. In fact, one over-zealous parent threatened to call the authorities on me for being a bad-parent and not restricting my children to supervised 'play dates' or organized after school activities. Not sure everywhere is like Moraga, but it is a symptom of some misguided parenting IMHO.