Cal84;460123 said:
Well, it's like I said before - a lot of the stress is self-manufactured, or rather parent manufactured and pressed onto the kids. ...It's these kids who are being told by their parents that they must get into a top university and that SJSU just doesn't cut it anymore....
And besides, unlike CFB, these kids do get multiple second chances. The chance to transfer into Berkeley after two years is just one. Frankly the more important one is grad school. LOTS of kids will eventually graduate from Berkeley with even better degrees that that BA/BS you and I got. And guess what? Most of those kids will not have gotten into Berkeley as undergrads!
Bottom line I feel is this: our job as parents is to give our kids the tools and aids necessary to succeed. Beyond that, it's up to them. We can't get them into Berkeley, that's their task - if they want to go for it. The helicoptering parents of today sometimes forget that. And as far as stress goes, it's our job to make them feel less stress. Not more.
Cal84;460130 said:
...But I'll leave you with one final thought. I take all the claims that it is harder or more competitive to get into universities and turn them on their head. You see, if that was really the case then it MUST be that fewer (as a %) of the population is getting a higher education. But we clearly know this is NOT true. Over the last 25 years, this country's population has steadily shown an increase in the % of people who have 4 year degrees. We also see a steady increase in the % with graduate degrees. More heuristically, I think we've all seen that the population as a whole is more "educated" that it was 25 years ago - however you may define that term. That is NOT the sign of a system where educational opportunities are becoming more limited. Quite the reverse.
First, it appears that you now acknowledge there is more stress on today's youth (which you previously denied) but now you claim that it is either "self manufactured or parent manufactured." Why wouldn't parents want their children to have the best education possible? Why wouldn't students want that as well?
Second, you point out the increased numbers going to college, but much of this increase is due to the tremendous growth of the campuses of the Cal State system (which, as you pointed out, students do not want to attend). One example is Cal State Northridge which was highly respectable 20-35 years ago (often inaccurately rumored to be on the verge of conversion to UC) but which in the past 15 years has watered down their admissions so that 60% of the freshman class is required to take remedial courses in math and/or English because they do not meet relatively modest CSU standards. Of course, a good (B+ or better) student would not view attending such a school as an acceptable option, meaning this "opportunity" does not lessen the stress a serious high school student faces.
Third, much of the increase is due to the explosion of pseudo ("for profit") colleges that didn't exist 15 years ago, let alone 25-30: Kaplan, National, Phoenix, California International, Westwood, etc., that will take anyone, regardless of GPA, with or without a high school diploma. Again, the presence of these education factories does not diminish the stress on a serious high school student.
Fourth, thirty years ago a student with a 3.1 or better GPA could attend all but one or two UCs regardless of SAT, the exception being Cal and Davis (though in the late '60's early '70's Santa Cruz was impacted due to popularity). Even Southern Branch would accept any student who met UC qualifications. Today, the only campuses which get students "redirected" are Riverside and Merced, which, though they provide a quality and prestigious education, lack many of the amenities of the others.
Fifth, sure, one can go to a community college for two years and then transfer to a UC (indeed, that route is easier), but that is little consolation for the student who at 18 feels a compulsion to get away from parents and home and who worked hard to achieve "good" (B+ or better) grades along with participating in a panoply of activities, etc. 30 years ago, the C students attended what were then known as JCs; thus, this option is not very attractive to students with better grades and therefore does not reduce their stress.
Finally, AP courses are stressful. Perhaps too much. 20-30 years ago, there were limited offerings and a student would take one or two, maybe three at most, during his entire high school career. Now, students are taking several each year because higher ranked colleges want to see rigor. Certainly, students should challenge themselves, but making high school students as young as 14 take college-level classses (for which they may not yet have sufficient maturity) is adding stress. High schools used to be self-contained communities with their own newspapers and cultural amenities (concerts, shows, etc.) Today, the top students are taking too many AP classes to the detriment of once thriving programs in journalism, music, drama, etc. A generation ago, almost every high school had a weekly newspaper (I know of one that had a daily paper) which everyone read, today schools are lucky to have a monthly paper that is hardly noticed. (And we wonder why journalism is a failing industry.)
We are robbing the high school generation of its youth. They have work much harder to get into colleges that were taken for granted 25 years ago, let alone the more prestigious ones such as Cal. Ironically, all of this effort and sacrifice are not translating to job opportunities four years later.