So, this is sort of deep and long.
There was a post recently about making Memorial loud, and someone brought up that I could help with that iin returning as micman.
When I decided to return to Cal after a 25 year hiatus, I had hoped we'd find a way to integrate me into the micman crew. Not take it over, but just be one of the crew and lend my perspective, approach and maybe, just sort of show the current micmen what's possible. It would be both a great thing and a great story for Cal. We had reporters from ESPN, SF Chronicle, Yahoo Sports, whom I know that wanted to do a story on it. Sure, i would be the hook , but it wouldn't be all about me (I don't need it) but the magic that is Cal sports, spirit and tradition. It would be so easy.
For whatever reason, that has not been welcomed. And to be honest, it hurts. Not because I am owed anything. Not because I am being disrespected. But because it makes no sense and I never get a straight answer. They have been urged to include me by athletes across sports, particularly football and by the football establishment itself. But for whatever reason, it's no. That's their choice, but i find it sad.
See, there are countless incredible, spirted backers of Cal. I am not alone in that by any measure. But i don't believe anybody lives the crazy cross section of Cal that I do, who is the embodiement of positivity when it comes to Cal (not ideal maybe for a person deciding a coaching hire [as many of you get aggravated with], but certainly for someone inspiring / motivating fans). I alway say, i don't know how the plane gets off the ground. I don't know how someone can play tennis in London and somehow that picture goes up into outerspace and gets put together again on my screen, on my phone no less! But man, one thing i know, that is at my core, is how to inspire and lead Cal fans to greatness.
You know, someone commented in that thread
I have to tell you, with all respect, you're wrong. Millenials get a lot of deserved flack, but one of the many areas where I respect them is they don't silo people like we did when i was their age. A lot of that is due to social media where we can get to know people in ways it wouldn't have been possible 25 years ago. They actually see people as individuals and not a demographic.Quote:
With all due respect to a great bear, the students might want someone of their own generation standing up there with the mic.
I am in fact a Cal undergrad. Yes, I'm older than some of these kids' parents... but metaphysically, spiritually, i am them. I often joke with them that the reason we get along so well is while I may be twice their age, i have half their maturity, so it all evens out. I'm not pretending to be a Frank the Tank caricature, I'm just Ken. A sui generis being, that marches to his own beat.
In fact, in my Haas leadership class, we had to say something about ourselves and part of what I said is here i am a college dropout who somehow did ok for himself in the world and now 25 years later is getting his degree. My point to them was that they should choose their own path. Don't let anyone tell them how to live their lives. Our life journeys are not prescribed for us.
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That idea of my life being sort of crazy is that you know, on any given night, I might be having dinner with fellow students from a class, like I did tonight after my CS10 lab...i might be getting together with members of the football team, or water polo team ... or on another night their coaches... I might be having a business lunch with a professor like I did on friday to see about hiring her to do some consulting... and all of those those relationships are distinct. And they know it.
For the last two years i have not sat on the west side at games, instead firmly in the student section... and every single fellow student i meet is awesome and we end up friending each other on Facebook. Seriously, life is so good it's hard to believe I get to do this. Would I try out, sure. I have no problem with that. I am very confident of what the result would be. That's not arrogance, that's knowing who I am and knowing who Cal is.
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So that was long and rambling. I am asking you to PLEASE, DO NOT turn this into an attack or criticism of the current students or even the admin. I just wanted to share this perspective with you since it was brought up.
I wish things were different, but that's life. And my outlook remains ever golden.
GO BEARS!
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I added this video to Ken's post