01Bear said:socaltownie said:
We can relitigate the Yani episode. While not defending his actions as appropriate civil standards it isn't clear that stopping providing off the record inside information is retaliation. Essentially what was alleged is that because she turned down his cringe worthy passes he stopped doing something he shouldn't have been doing ANYWAY. She got mad when (and we don't know whether this was Yani being a d*** or her own failures as a young reporter) a scoop that she thought she had turned out to not be true
(IIRC this was about the Ivan Rabb recruitment).
And lets step slightly back about her allegations. Essentially what is being alleged is that because Yani was her only source and she failed to cultivate that source in a way that wasn't playing to his reptilian brain and was frozen she was harrassed? Hmmm....
I understand the allegation. I am not going to defend Yani to the death. But I can ABSOLUTELY see why this was a leaner and why Martin (or others) referred it to HR and then didn't take any further action. Indeed, IIRC Martin followed policies to the T. Refer to HR and don't engage complaintent. ;-)
It's been a while since this went down and I'm not sure I remember all the details. If you have sources you can cite to show Yann only gave the reporter access to information he wasn't supposed to give in the first place, that would be helpful. Otherwise, that would seem to be more of a weak attempt at defending Yann's actions. Additionally, please cite the source stating the reporter was only playing to his reptilian brain.
Lets recall the specifics. This was supposedly "off the record" information regarding recruiting targets and progress. Now while "everyone does it" it actually is against NCAA rules. She was not iced out of press conferences. She could still call people for interviews. She just wasn't getting off the record information from Yanni. If that is retaliation (in the context of harassments) then we are on a VERY slippery slope. And we can also throw some shade on her employer - who thought her usefulness as a reporter dried up when she no longer was able to get off the record information. Hmmm.......
In case it's not readily apparent, women journalists in sports (especially) are often subjected to sexual harassment, even though they maintain strict professional standards. This does not mean they were "playing to [anyone's] reptilian brain." Rather, they get objectified and sexualized by men in sports in a way that few male journalists are or have been similarly subjected.
Hmm #2. I am not going to disagree with the meta point. But Lets recall her social media posts which, if not flirting with players, was not "professional". Lets also chalk it up to being a young 20 something. I tend to be of the opinion that if you want to be treated as a professional and only as a professional it is important to ACT like a professional. Jumping back and forth across boundries isn't licenses to be groped or objectified but CAN be a problem. You can try to google the videos and still see if they are up.
Your attitude is essentially one of "she asked for it" when there is no evidence that is the case whatsoever.
Again - see her videos.
In fact, even Yann admitted he tried to trick her into going to his apartment, this evidencing her prior refusal of his inappropriate advances and Yann's knowledge that what he was doing was unwelcome.
I am _NOT_ defending his behavior. I am not even defending that if it was a clear supervisor and surpverisoree relationship it wouldn't have been harrassment.
If I were in Coach Martin's shoes, I would've been concerned by the allegations and reported both to the AD as well as the Title IX office, at a minimum. I honestly have no idea if he did any of that. Nor do I remember any of Coach Martin's actions during the investigations. However, all of that is irrelevant.
that is what he did. He was still thrown under the bus by the admin and the comical and the complaintant who either willfully or ignorantly didn't understand Martin could NOT take action against Yanni.
What matters is that Yann behaved like a scumbag and sexually harassed a young woman doing her job.
Again - she was NOT the employee of the University. It is NOT a clear cut business relationships (as would be a contractor or contractee to the unversity). It is a BLOG who hired a stringer for a pittance to get off the record recruiting news. Boy. You better not date anyone you EVER met through work if the university (which it did) considers that a protected relationship.
My response was only to that portion. Your attempt to cover up Yann's behavior and blame the victim for "CLEARLY" sending mixed messages is just absurd on its face.
Watch her flirt with football players on the videos. Again, I am happy to excuse that as a young 20 something that doesn't know better. But that is what she was doing.
Yann should not have attempted "to trick" anyone, including a woman reporter, into going to his apartment (implicitly for sex). That he had to resort to such trickery is sufficient to show he knew she did not want to have sex with him. That's not "mixed messages;" that's a "not interested" or a "no."
Again, you care conflating Yanni's boorish behavior which I am not going to defend with a formal claim of harrasment....and your argument that Yanni was oblivious when clearly other public images she was happy to put out there suggested at the MOST innocent certain journalistic boundries being crossed. Lets leave sex out of it - you treat the people you are covering in a professional way.
IIRC, you mentioned you have a kid. Would you be fine with your kid (as an adult) being put in the reporter's shoes and have Yann try to trick your kid into going to his apartment for sex? Would it be okay for your kid to lose his/her job as a result of rejecting Yann's sexual advances? If not, then why is it okay that Yann did this to someone else's kid?
I would understand fully my daughters action and, if I was going to shoot bullets, I might reserve MOST for the BLOG that fired her because she no longer could get off the record information from a single assistant coach who was 15 years her elder and believed she could do this with 2-3 years of experience and a few mass comm classes.
Ultimately, the MeToo movement has helped to reveal a lot of truths about individuals. It's shown that there are countless people (primarily women) who have been sexually harassed, abused, and assaulted. It's also shown that none of this is uncommon. Worse, it's shown that there are some men who think it's not a problem because it either doesn't happen to them or because they support treating women as objects.
Yes. But I would much rather discuss the utter train wreck this started in our program than the bigger point of MeToo - and I think that we do a disservice to that when we take things like Yanni and conflate them with Weinstein - or Sabine.
I grew up in the pre-MeToo era. I came of age sexually when consent was implied. I understand just how difficult it can be to determine if a woman was consenting to sex or if she was refusing. I resolved that issue, though, by asking questions like "are you okay with this?" and "do you want this [sex]?" when I was uncertain. And yeah, I was just as horny as the next guy. But I also took "no" for an answer.
The report sadly does not provide us the texts to see what her answer was. We have her word she said a firm no and Yanni's that she did not until the apartment incident. I agree that if she had firmly stated "No" in a text that he was at fault. Note though - given the report if he at that point had stopped giving her off the record info he would have violated the harrasment policy. The apartment then is irrelavent. It is this definition of retailation where I shake my head at the title IX office.
Those supporting the MeToo movement are saying it's time men (primarily) take "no" for an answer and that women not continue to be treated merely as sex objects. MeToo is basically asking that women be treated the same way men are and have been treated. If you have a problem with that, then there's nothing more to discuss.
We do not disagree except that - and I do believe this - that the myriad of professional women I work with (as do the MEN I work with) that there are professional decorums that are asked for. It doesn't mean that you are "asking for it". But if you flirt on videos and wear less than professional attire It isn't surprising you are going to attract interest from single members of the opposite sex _AND_ are less likely to be taken seriously in your profession.
Take care of your Chicken