My apologies. I read too much into your post and made assumptions when I should have asked questions. Best wishes to your family.dajo9 said:I'm sorry if I gave the wrong impression about myself. I'm a cis white guy. However I have family that is trans. I have family that is gay. My view is my family's struggle is my struggle.Goldener Bar said:I am sorry that you have personally experienced hatred based on your life choices. All people should be entitled to the same rights and privileges regardless. My hope is that your life choices have made you happy and that you have been able to find a fulfilling relationship with another person regardless of their gender as it relates to yours. It's none of my business to know the particulars of your situation, but thank you for sharing.dajo9 said:There are 1.3 million transgender adults in America. They have family and they have friends. Something like 5% of Americans are LGBT. They have family and they have friends. You insult them all (myself included) when you dismissively call it virtue signaling.calbear93 said:Amount of time we spend on transgender issue that impacts such a small percentage of the population while we have a looming black swan event with the debt ceiling, runaway deficit, geopolitical issues that will reshape the new world order, China and Russia coming out more and more as blatant enemies looking to minimize us, school shooting, runaway crime where people do not feel safe doing basic things like taking public transportation. Yet we f****ing spend so many calories here and elsewhere on this stupid issue.okaydo said:Nikki Haley in New Hampshire this morning:
— David Weigel (@daveweigel) May 24, 2023
"Everybody know about Dylan Mulvaney? Bud Light? That is a guy, dressed as a girl, making fun of women."
She's at Politics and Eggs, not a red meat crowd; no applause for a line that gets some elsewhere.
We are a country of morons on both sides of the aisle. And no, this is not just a Republican issue. This is also a Democrat issue in playing identity politics just to add another progressive badge when we have much greater priorities.
Can we get past identity politics in this country and be a serious country that can get past virtue signaling on both sides?
We hear so much about the transgender community because the right is targeting them in a culture war in order to win votes for the subjects that concern you (default, debt, etc). It all leads back to the same place. Money and power. Standing up against the targeted harassment of the transgender community is the right thing to do, in its own right. We wont abandon our family and friends. We can walk and chew gum.
However, I must agree with what some of calbear93 is saying as well. The culture war on your right to live your life as you choose merely exists to divide us among the same lines as racial hatred, religious hatred, and everything else to keep us from uniting on class based issues of economic inequality and inequality of opportunity. I don't care about China or Russia, but I do care about regular people getting crumbs while the wealthy and powerful and corporations get socialism.