Why do people become homeless?
Despair has got to be a factor. Loss of hope, giving up.
Why do people lose hope?
I think our society is messed up. We are raised on fairytales. First it starts with Disney, then it migrates to all the happy-endings in film. We are filled with endless advertising about the dream-life awaiting us, and reality shows fill our imaginations.
We will all drive a luxury vehicle, live in a McMansion. We will never go grey, or bald. Our teeth will never rot. Our sex lives will be great, and we will spend as much time on vacation as doing work, which isn't actually "work", but a passion or "play" that we love.
The solution is setting expectations right: stoicism.
We need to raise our children on the notion that life is unfair, that life is toil. Don't expect too much.
I suspect that if we could go back in time, a certain significant percentage of homeless people would not be homeless if they had been raised with different expectations of life.
So, then, how to address THAT after the fact?
Stoicism.
Before they give up.
Despair has got to be a factor. Loss of hope, giving up.
Why do people lose hope?
I think our society is messed up. We are raised on fairytales. First it starts with Disney, then it migrates to all the happy-endings in film. We are filled with endless advertising about the dream-life awaiting us, and reality shows fill our imaginations.
We will all drive a luxury vehicle, live in a McMansion. We will never go grey, or bald. Our teeth will never rot. Our sex lives will be great, and we will spend as much time on vacation as doing work, which isn't actually "work", but a passion or "play" that we love.
The solution is setting expectations right: stoicism.
We need to raise our children on the notion that life is unfair, that life is toil. Don't expect too much.
I suspect that if we could go back in time, a certain significant percentage of homeless people would not be homeless if they had been raised with different expectations of life.
So, then, how to address THAT after the fact?
Stoicism.
Before they give up.