Eastern Oregon Bear said:
BearHunter said:
It has got to be the media that's largely to blame for fueling and fanning the flames of racial discord. The universities don't help either.
Yeah, it couldn't have been due to some purported increase in violent protests, white supremacy groups, strident political speech and politically motivated actions to restrict the rights of "those" people.
Help me understand this.
Are you suggesting that the climate is more racist now than in 1995? Are you suggesting that people are facing more racism now than in 1995?
If so, and if it were partly due to those things you mentioned, what is flaming such activities? Let's not go to the knee-jerk reaction of "Trump" and "MAGA" since those are symptoms and not the causes.
Is it possible, even theoretically, that race-based remedies and identity politics are also responsible for the racial divide? Is the solution part of the problem? If we are constantly identifying by race as a solution with mandated results, people will identify and create tribes based on race, would they not? No one voluntarily gives up their privilege. I would love for anyone here to identify how they have given up their privilege by giving up their job and their home that they didn't deserve because of the white privilege so that a more worthy person of color can rightfully have their job and send their kids to safer schools. No, no one does that. Instead, they alleviate their guilt by trying to say they are aligned without any real sacrifice so that they can be viewed as one of the good privileged folks.
We saw this with emasculation of men about a decade ago where some men were feigning feminism and almost self-hate to be seen as allies of the feminists. That led to a generation of emasculated men when women will always want strong, compassionate, respectful men and not sycophants. There is a danger of having a group of sycophants on racial issues who don't know how to have their own opinions with compassion instead of resorting to automatic apology and surrender, with opposite extremes being created in response. Again, real guilt will lead to real sacrifice like Alexis Ohanian demonstrated. Instead, most of the apology is in the form of empty words that people see through clearly, like Beto who turned himself from someone who can take down Cruz to the epitome of self-hate without real belief that would have manifested in real sacrifice.
As I stated, MAGA is not the problem. It is a symptom. When we have conclusions as arguments from both sides and those who don't agree put into a corner as insensitive or racists or lacking bandwidth, it will not make the disagreement go away. It will fester until a demagogue like Trump comes along and makes it OK to voice the discontent even more violently due to the prior shaming.
Open debate and potentially hurt feelings, and not name calling and shaming, are the beginning of the answer.
Anyone who has ever worked in negotiation and persuasion knows that the best way to get people over to your side of argument is find common grounds, find areas of agreement, listen and discuss. But we don't. We don't because our sense of self is not based on what we have done for the world but what we say we believe and how much we don't like the other side.