Two different American experiences

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That 1918 Greenville, South Carolina proposed ordinance is terrible. The movie The Help takes place in 1963. We have come a long way from those terrible times.
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"Kill'em all and let God sort'em out."
-General Tecumseh Sherman during March to the Sea
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Send my credentials to the House of Detention

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20 dollars hmm
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https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRTDeND6/



White rapist no jail time …
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To those racists that scream "what about Chicago" at the top of their lungs …

Here you go
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRTnG5Fn/

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https://www.sfchronicle.com/podcasts/article/reparations-task-force-1-2-billion-18074524.php
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Thank God for this thread. Until this very moment I had no idea there had been racism in America. What's next, you going to tell me people were forcibly brought here and made slaves? No way!
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I'm happy it's all jokes and humor for you

Thanks for proving the point why it's necessary
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going4roses said:

I'm happy it's all jokes and humor for you

Thanks for proving the point why it's necessary


I dont believe any one here in this forum "jokes" about slavery or racism.

But my question for you, is how does repeatedly posting about it on a non-descript message board that only a dozen or so active participants read, moves the needle for you?

How do your repeated posts about this topic improve your life for the better?

"Cults don't end well. They really don't."
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It has got to be the media that's largely to blame for fueling and fanning the flames of racial discord. The universities don't help either.
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Wow

Talk about whitesplaning

You need to read more …a lot more
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BearHunter said:



It has got to be the media that's largely to blame for fueling and fanning the flames of racial discord. The universities don't help either.
Yeah, it couldn't have been due to some purported increase in violent protests, white supremacy groups, strident political speech and politically motivated actions to restrict the rights of "those" people.
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Interestingly enough, CNN did in fact make a business decision to go full on "Black Lives Matter" about 8 years ago.
Anderson Cooper got pulled from CNN Prime Time for Don Lemon. Every night was a BLM "highlight" show.
And the rest is history.
"Cults don't end well. They really don't."
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That has absolutely nothing to do with nothing
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going4roses said:

That has absolutely nothing to do with nothing


No, Im afraid you're wrong about that.

It has EVERYTHING to do with WHO YOU ARE and where youre going in life. The fact that youre blind to it, is quite telling.

"Cults don't end well. They really don't."
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I'll consider the source as usual
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DiabloWags said:

going4roses said:

I'm happy it's all jokes and humor for you

Thanks for proving the point why it's necessary


I dont believe any one here in this forum "jokes" about slavery or racism.

But my question for you, is how does repeatedly posting about it on a non-descript message board that only a dozen or so active participants read, moves the needle for you?

How do your repeated posts about this topic improve your life for the better?




Why are you so concerned? Why are you so angry? Why does it matter when you don't agree/understand/possess the bandwidth to comprehend issues because they don't effect you?
I understand your fear of the truth is so overwhelming you just have to be contrary.

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Eastern Oregon Bear said:

BearHunter said:



It has got to be the media that's largely to blame for fueling and fanning the flames of racial discord. The universities don't help either.
Yeah, it couldn't have been due to some purported increase in violent protests, white supremacy groups, strident political speech and politically motivated actions to restrict the rights of "those" people.


It was all in reaction to Obama becoming President. I think that was a great moment in US history but since that time a very small but vocal minority has been emboldened by leaders like Donald Trump to say and do things they only thought about prior. I think the lasting positive effect of this will be that those people will self-identify themselves and society will eventually root them out and purge them but just like the Civil War it's going to be a long and ugly process.
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Humble yourself

Listen

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRKd6Yqt/

Learn

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going4roses said:

DiabloWags said:

going4roses said:

I'm happy it's all jokes and humor for you

Thanks for proving the point why it's necessary


I dont believe any one here in this forum "jokes" about slavery or racism.

But my question for you, is how does repeatedly posting about it on a non-descript message board that only a dozen or so active participants read, moves the needle for you?

How do your repeated posts about this topic improve your life for the better?




Why are you so concerned? Why are you so angry? Why does it matter when you don't agree/understand/possess the bandwidth to comprehend issues because they don't effect you?
Cool story.
I'm not angry at all.

I simply asked how your facilitating "awareness" of an issue that you are intimate with moves the needle for you and improves your life for the better amongst a handful of strangers on this non-descript message board on the internet.

And instead of answering my question, you deflect and re-direct with a bunch of psycho-babble.

I asked you a simple question.
You refused to answer it.

This tells me that you really arent interested in discussing topics in "good faith" here.

"Cults don't end well. They really don't."
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Yeah your big mad
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Eastern Oregon Bear said:

BearHunter said:



It has got to be the media that's largely to blame for fueling and fanning the flames of racial discord. The universities don't help either.
Yeah, it couldn't have been due to some purported increase in violent protests, white supremacy groups, strident political speech and politically motivated actions to restrict the rights of "those" people.
Help me understand this.

Are you suggesting that the climate is more racist now than in 1995? Are you suggesting that people are facing more racism now than in 1995?

If so, and if it were partly due to those things you mentioned, what is flaming such activities? Let's not go to the knee-jerk reaction of "Trump" and "MAGA" since those are symptoms and not the causes.

Is it possible, even theoretically, that race-based remedies and identity politics are also responsible for the racial divide? Is the solution part of the problem? If we are constantly identifying by race as a solution with mandated results, people will identify and create tribes based on race, would they not? No one voluntarily gives up their privilege. I would love for anyone here to identify how they have given up their privilege by giving up their job and their home that they didn't deserve because of the white privilege so that a more worthy person of color can rightfully have their job and send their kids to safer schools. No, no one does that. Instead, they alleviate their guilt by trying to say they are aligned without any real sacrifice so that they can be viewed as one of the good privileged folks.

We saw this with emasculation of men about a decade ago where some men were feigning feminism and almost self-hate to be seen as allies of the feminists. That led to a generation of emasculated men when women will always want strong, compassionate, respectful men and not sycophants. There is a danger of having a group of sycophants on racial issues who don't know how to have their own opinions with compassion instead of resorting to automatic apology and surrender, with opposite extremes being created in response. Again, real guilt will lead to real sacrifice like Alexis Ohanian demonstrated. Instead, most of the apology is in the form of empty words that people see through clearly, like Beto who turned himself from someone who can take down Cruz to the epitome of self-hate without real belief that would have manifested in real sacrifice.

As I stated, MAGA is not the problem. It is a symptom. When we have conclusions as arguments from both sides and those who don't agree put into a corner as insensitive or racists or lacking bandwidth, it will not make the disagreement go away. It will fester until a demagogue like Trump comes along and makes it OK to voice the discontent even more violently due to the prior shaming.

Open debate and potentially hurt feelings, and not name calling and shaming, are the beginning of the answer.

Anyone who has ever worked in negotiation and persuasion knows that the best way to get people over to your side of argument is find common grounds, find areas of agreement, listen and discuss. But we don't. We don't because our sense of self is not based on what we have done for the world but what we say we believe and how much we don't like the other side.

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calbear93 said:

Eastern Oregon Bear said:

BearHunter said:



It has got to be the media that's largely to blame for fueling and fanning the flames of racial discord. The universities don't help either.
Yeah, it couldn't have been due to some purported increase in violent protests, white supremacy groups, strident political speech and politically motivated actions to restrict the rights of "those" people.
Help me understand this.

Are you suggesting that the climate is more racist now than in 1995? Are you suggesting that people are facing more racism now than in 1995?

If so, and if it were partly due to those things you mentioned, what is flaming such activities? Let's not go to the knee-jerk reaction of "Trump" and "MAGA" since those are symptoms and not the causes.

Is it possible, even theoretically, that race-based remedies and identity politics are also responsible for the racial divide? Is the solution part of the problem? If we are constantly identifying by race as a solution with mandated results, people will identify and create tribes based on race, would they not? No one voluntarily gives up their privilege. I would love for anyone here to identify how they have given up their privilege by giving up their job and their home that they didn't deserve because of the white privilege so that a more worthy person of color can rightfully have their job and send their kids to safer schools. No, no one does that. Instead, they alleviate their guilt by trying to say they are aligned without any real sacrifice so that they can be viewed as one of the good privileged folks.

We saw this with emasculation of men about a decade ago where some men were feigning feminism and almost self-hate to be seen as allies of the feminists. That led to a generation of emasculated men when women will always want strong, compassionate, respectful men and not sycophants. There is a danger of having a group of sycophants on racial issues who don't know how to have their own opinions with compassion instead of resorting to automatic apology and surrender, with opposite extremes being created in response. Again, real guilt will lead to real sacrifice like Alexis Ohanian demonstrated. Instead, most of the apology is in the form of empty words that people see through clearly, like Beto who turned himself from someone who can take down Cruz to the epitome of self-hate without real belief that would have manifested in real sacrifice.

As I stated, MAGA is not the problem. It is a symptom. When we have conclusions as arguments from both sides and those who don't agree put into a corner as insensitive or racists or lacking bandwidth, it will not make the disagreement go away. It will fester until a demagogue like Trump comes along and makes it OK to voice the discontent even more violently due to the prior shaming.

Open debate and potentially hurt feelings, and not name calling and shaming, are the beginning of the answer.

Anyone who has ever worked in negotiation and persuasion knows that the best way to get people over to your side of argument is find common grounds, find areas of agreement, listen and discuss. But we don't. We don't because our sense of self is not based on what we have done for the world but what we say we believe and how much we don't like the other side.


More racist? Yes, at least more openly and overtly.

I'm not sure we have much common ground if you see men supporting feminism and equal rights for women as men having self-hate.
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Eastern Oregon Bear said:

calbear93 said:

Eastern Oregon Bear said:

BearHunter said:



It has got to be the media that's largely to blame for fueling and fanning the flames of racial discord. The universities don't help either.
Yeah, it couldn't have been due to some purported increase in violent protests, white supremacy groups, strident political speech and politically motivated actions to restrict the rights of "those" people.
Help me understand this.

Are you suggesting that the climate is more racist now than in 1995? Are you suggesting that people are facing more racism now than in 1995?

If so, and if it were partly due to those things you mentioned, what is flaming such activities? Let's not go to the knee-jerk reaction of "Trump" and "MAGA" since those are symptoms and not the causes.

Is it possible, even theoretically, that race-based remedies and identity politics are also responsible for the racial divide? Is the solution part of the problem? If we are constantly identifying by race as a solution with mandated results, people will identify and create tribes based on race, would they not? No one voluntarily gives up their privilege. I would love for anyone here to identify how they have given up their privilege by giving up their job and their home that they didn't deserve because of the white privilege so that a more worthy person of color can rightfully have their job and send their kids to safer schools. No, no one does that. Instead, they alleviate their guilt by trying to say they are aligned without any real sacrifice so that they can be viewed as one of the good privileged folks.

We saw this with emasculation of men about a decade ago where some men were feigning feminism and almost self-hate to be seen as allies of the feminists. That led to a generation of emasculated men when women will always want strong, compassionate, respectful men and not sycophants. There is a danger of having a group of sycophants on racial issues who don't know how to have their own opinions with compassion instead of resorting to automatic apology and surrender, with opposite extremes being created in response. Again, real guilt will lead to real sacrifice like Alexis Ohanian demonstrated. Instead, most of the apology is in the form of empty words that people see through clearly, like Beto who turned himself from someone who can take down Cruz to the epitome of self-hate without real belief that would have manifested in real sacrifice.

As I stated, MAGA is not the problem. It is a symptom. When we have conclusions as arguments from both sides and those who don't agree put into a corner as insensitive or racists or lacking bandwidth, it will not make the disagreement go away. It will fester until a demagogue like Trump comes along and makes it OK to voice the discontent even more violently due to the prior shaming.

Open debate and potentially hurt feelings, and not name calling and shaming, are the beginning of the answer.

Anyone who has ever worked in negotiation and persuasion knows that the best way to get people over to your side of argument is find common grounds, find areas of agreement, listen and discuss. But we don't. We don't because our sense of self is not based on what we have done for the world but what we say we believe and how much we don't like the other side.


More racist? Yes, at least more openly and overtly.

I'm not sure we have much common ground if you see men supporting feminism and equal rights for women as men having self-hate.
I guess I was asking what you think has caused the climate to be more racist in your view despite all of the mandated social engineering supposedly designed to mitigate and alleviate racism in our society.

I absolute do not support feminism as expressed in the form of male hate as opposed to just equal rights for the sexes while recognizing the difference in the sexes. I believe the sexes are different, and I have taught my boys to be strong, respectful men who lead and protect the women in their lives. But if you have not seen the surrender from males claiming to be feminists in the prior decade with men in themselves and masculinity argued as inferior or toxic as opposed to just dishonorable behavior of some men, you are not being genuine. Chivalry is a good thing. I still train in mixed martial arts because I feel the need to be the protector while honoring and respecting my wife and daughters in all things. In my family, while my wife and I discuss and consult, if there is a disagreement (which is rare since I put her interest before mine), we both understand that one person has to make the final decision, and it will be me. I don't care what anyone else says. That has worked well in my family.
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When I lived in NYC for 10 years I paid for everything with girlfriends.
Chivalry is overrated.

But when my girlfriend was a director of marketing at Dean Witter and made $125,000 a year back in the early 90's in a male dominated field . . . it was a helluva turn on when she paid.

Big Time.

"Cults don't end well. They really don't."
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going4roses said:

Yeah your big mad

Not as mad as you will be when you find out that Sacramento was just "bluffing" on $1.2 million per African American in reparation money for residents. But feel free to keep spending your time here moving the "needle" for awareness on a non-descript message board, instead of being up in Sacramento and making your voice heard. - - - You keep doing you bro!



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calbear93 said:

Eastern Oregon Bear said:

calbear93 said:

Eastern Oregon Bear said:

BearHunter said:



It has got to be the media that's largely to blame for fueling and fanning the flames of racial discord. The universities don't help either.
Yeah, it couldn't have been due to some purported increase in violent protests, white supremacy groups, strident political speech and politically motivated actions to restrict the rights of "those" people.
Help me understand this.

Are you suggesting that the climate is more racist now than in 1995? Are you suggesting that people are facing more racism now than in 1995?

If so, and if it were partly due to those things you mentioned, what is flaming such activities? Let's not go to the knee-jerk reaction of "Trump" and "MAGA" since those are symptoms and not the causes.

Is it possible, even theoretically, that race-based remedies and identity politics are also responsible for the racial divide? Is the solution part of the problem? If we are constantly identifying by race as a solution with mandated results, people will identify and create tribes based on race, would they not? No one voluntarily gives up their privilege. I would love for anyone here to identify how they have given up their privilege by giving up their job and their home that they didn't deserve because of the white privilege so that a more worthy person of color can rightfully have their job and send their kids to safer schools. No, no one does that. Instead, they alleviate their guilt by trying to say they are aligned without any real sacrifice so that they can be viewed as one of the good privileged folks.

We saw this with emasculation of men about a decade ago where some men were feigning feminism and almost self-hate to be seen as allies of the feminists. That led to a generation of emasculated men when women will always want strong, compassionate, respectful men and not sycophants. There is a danger of having a group of sycophants on racial issues who don't know how to have their own opinions with compassion instead of resorting to automatic apology and surrender, with opposite extremes being created in response. Again, real guilt will lead to real sacrifice like Alexis Ohanian demonstrated. Instead, most of the apology is in the form of empty words that people see through clearly, like Beto who turned himself from someone who can take down Cruz to the epitome of self-hate without real belief that would have manifested in real sacrifice.

As I stated, MAGA is not the problem. It is a symptom. When we have conclusions as arguments from both sides and those who don't agree put into a corner as insensitive or racists or lacking bandwidth, it will not make the disagreement go away. It will fester until a demagogue like Trump comes along and makes it OK to voice the discontent even more violently due to the prior shaming.

Open debate and potentially hurt feelings, and not name calling and shaming, are the beginning of the answer.

Anyone who has ever worked in negotiation and persuasion knows that the best way to get people over to your side of argument is find common grounds, find areas of agreement, listen and discuss. But we don't. We don't because our sense of self is not based on what we have done for the world but what we say we believe and how much we don't like the other side.


More racist? Yes, at least more openly and overtly.

I'm not sure we have much common ground if you see men supporting feminism and equal rights for women as men having self-hate.
I guess I was asking what you think has caused the climate to be more racist in your view despite all of the mandated social engineering supposedly designed to mitigate and alleviate racism in our society.

I absolute do not support feminism as expressed in the form of male hate as opposed to just equal rights for the sexes while recognizing the difference in the sexes. I believe the sexes are different, and I have taught my boys to be strong, respectful men who lead and protect the women in their lives. But if you have not seen the surrender from males claiming to be feminists in the prior decade with men in themselves and masculinity argued as inferior or toxic as opposed to just dishonorable behavior of some men, you are not being genuine. Chivalry is a good thing. I still train in mixed martial arts because I feel the need to be the protector while honoring and respecting my wife and daughters in all things. In my family, while my wife and I discuss and consult, if there is a disagreement (which is rare since I put her interest before mine), we both understand that one person has to make the final decision, and it will be me. I don't care what anyone else says. That has worked well in my family.


My opinion is that there are a lot of people who are tolerant as long as it doesn't threaten them in some way. They know that one gay guy at the office and make fun of his flamboyant clothes. They have that one black friend. Their gardener is Mexican and their doctor is Jewish. A Sikh runs the gas station. Their accountant is Korean. Maybe their boss is even a woman. Hey, America is about diversity, right? It bothers them sometimes but it's no big deal.

However, when they start to feel like they are losing power then their mere prejudice becomes bigotry. As I said earlier, I think Obama becoming President and appointing a lot of black people to positions of power changed the dynamic.

Combine that with people losing their jobs to immigrants (legal or otherwise) and women and minorities such as Asians being better educated and less willing to take **** as a result and uneducated white men saw that their role in the future of America is diminishing. Rather than go to school like their female counterparts they retreated to the havens of uneducated white males like the trades and the police force which is where they are still concentrated.

They think if they can send all the immigrants back, prevent people from obtaining an education, and control women they can level the playing field.

In 1995 they weren't a minority, but now they are and it will just get worse over time. The white neighborhood will tolerate a minority family living there but when it becomes 50% minorities they want to leave or else force the minorities out.

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dimitrig said:

calbear93 said:

Eastern Oregon Bear said:

calbear93 said:

Eastern Oregon Bear said:

BearHunter said:



It has got to be the media that's largely to blame for fueling and fanning the flames of racial discord. The universities don't help either.
Yeah, it couldn't have been due to some purported increase in violent protests, white supremacy groups, strident political speech and politically motivated actions to restrict the rights of "those" people.
Help me understand this.

Are you suggesting that the climate is more racist now than in 1995? Are you suggesting that people are facing more racism now than in 1995?

If so, and if it were partly due to those things you mentioned, what is flaming such activities? Let's not go to the knee-jerk reaction of "Trump" and "MAGA" since those are symptoms and not the causes.

Is it possible, even theoretically, that race-based remedies and identity politics are also responsible for the racial divide? Is the solution part of the problem? If we are constantly identifying by race as a solution with mandated results, people will identify and create tribes based on race, would they not? No one voluntarily gives up their privilege. I would love for anyone here to identify how they have given up their privilege by giving up their job and their home that they didn't deserve because of the white privilege so that a more worthy person of color can rightfully have their job and send their kids to safer schools. No, no one does that. Instead, they alleviate their guilt by trying to say they are aligned without any real sacrifice so that they can be viewed as one of the good privileged folks.

We saw this with emasculation of men about a decade ago where some men were feigning feminism and almost self-hate to be seen as allies of the feminists. That led to a generation of emasculated men when women will always want strong, compassionate, respectful men and not sycophants. There is a danger of having a group of sycophants on racial issues who don't know how to have their own opinions with compassion instead of resorting to automatic apology and surrender, with opposite extremes being created in response. Again, real guilt will lead to real sacrifice like Alexis Ohanian demonstrated. Instead, most of the apology is in the form of empty words that people see through clearly, like Beto who turned himself from someone who can take down Cruz to the epitome of self-hate without real belief that would have manifested in real sacrifice.

As I stated, MAGA is not the problem. It is a symptom. When we have conclusions as arguments from both sides and those who don't agree put into a corner as insensitive or racists or lacking bandwidth, it will not make the disagreement go away. It will fester until a demagogue like Trump comes along and makes it OK to voice the discontent even more violently due to the prior shaming.

Open debate and potentially hurt feelings, and not name calling and shaming, are the beginning of the answer.

Anyone who has ever worked in negotiation and persuasion knows that the best way to get people over to your side of argument is find common grounds, find areas of agreement, listen and discuss. But we don't. We don't because our sense of self is not based on what we have done for the world but what we say we believe and how much we don't like the other side.


More racist? Yes, at least more openly and overtly.

I'm not sure we have much common ground if you see men supporting feminism and equal rights for women as men having self-hate.
I guess I was asking what you think has caused the climate to be more racist in your view despite all of the mandated social engineering supposedly designed to mitigate and alleviate racism in our society.

I absolute do not support feminism as expressed in the form of male hate as opposed to just equal rights for the sexes while recognizing the difference in the sexes. I believe the sexes are different, and I have taught my boys to be strong, respectful men who lead and protect the women in their lives. But if you have not seen the surrender from males claiming to be feminists in the prior decade with men in themselves and masculinity argued as inferior or toxic as opposed to just dishonorable behavior of some men, you are not being genuine. Chivalry is a good thing. I still train in mixed martial arts because I feel the need to be the protector while honoring and respecting my wife and daughters in all things. In my family, while my wife and I discuss and consult, if there is a disagreement (which is rare since I put her interest before mine), we both understand that one person has to make the final decision, and it will be me. I don't care what anyone else says. That has worked well in my family.


My opinion is that there are a lot of people who are tolerant as long as it doesn't threaten them in some way. They know that one gay guy at the office and make fun of his flamboyant clothes. They have that one black friend. Their gardener is Mexican and their doctor is Jewish. A Sikh runs the gas station. Their accountant is Korean. Maybe their boss is even a woman. Hey, America is about diversity, right? It bothers them sometimes but it's no big deal.

However, when they start to feel like they are losing power then their mere prejudice becomes bigotry. As I said earlier, I think Obama becoming President and appointing a lot of black people to positions of power changed the dynamic.

Combine that with people losing their jobs to immigrants (legal or otherwise) and women and minorities such as Asians being better educated and less willing to take **** as a result and uneducated white men saw that their role in the future of America is diminishing. Rather than go to school like their female counterparts they retreated to the havens of uneducated white males like the trades and the police force which is where they are still concentrated.

They think if they can send all the immigrants back, prevent people from obtaining an education, and control women they can level the playing field.

On 1995 they weren't a minority, but now they are and it will just get worse over time. The white neighborhood will tolerate a minority family living there but when it becomes 50% minorities they want to leave or else force the minorities out.




Interesting perspective.

A few thoughts and questions.

So, have the uneducated white men lost "power" and, therefore, are acting out? All this talk of white privilege is no longer relevant to them since they are now in the minority and have lost the power they once enjoyed?

All the uneducated white women, in response, went to college? So are women superior to men?

Educated white men like yourself (if you are white) are immune from feeling the same threat and therefore did not fall victim to the hateful response? Or are the folks here just a superior model and have no need for further sacrifice or have privilege they should surrender willingly to the rightful owners?

We seem to talk about others being the problem and being the ones who need to change. How about you and others who feel as you do? Is feeling enough or do you actually have to surrender what you believe were ill gotten? Just wondering the degree of conviction. Obviously, if you found out your kids stole your neighbor's bike, you would return it. How about what you obtained from the social construct that gave you your position in life?

Thanks for your thoughtful responses. All interesting takes even if I disagree.
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DiabloWags said:

Interestingly enough, CNN did in fact make a business decision to go full on "Black Lives Matter" about 8 years ago.
Anderson Cooper got pulled from CNN Prime Time for Don Lemon. Every night was a BLM "highlight" show.
And the rest is history.



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calbear93 said:

dimitrig said:

calbear93 said:

Eastern Oregon Bear said:

calbear93 said:

Eastern Oregon Bear said:

BearHunter said:



It has got to be the media that's largely to blame for fueling and fanning the flames of racial discord. The universities don't help either.
Yeah, it couldn't have been due to some purported increase in violent protests, white supremacy groups, strident political speech and politically motivated actions to restrict the rights of "those" people.
Help me understand this.

Are you suggesting that the climate is more racist now than in 1995? Are you suggesting that people are facing more racism now than in 1995?

If so, and if it were partly due to those things you mentioned, what is flaming such activities? Let's not go to the knee-jerk reaction of "Trump" and "MAGA" since those are symptoms and not the causes.

Is it possible, even theoretically, that race-based remedies and identity politics are also responsible for the racial divide? Is the solution part of the problem? If we are constantly identifying by race as a solution with mandated results, people will identify and create tribes based on race, would they not? No one voluntarily gives up their privilege. I would love for anyone here to identify how they have given up their privilege by giving up their job and their home that they didn't deserve because of the white privilege so that a more worthy person of color can rightfully have their job and send their kids to safer schools. No, no one does that. Instead, they alleviate their guilt by trying to say they are aligned without any real sacrifice so that they can be viewed as one of the good privileged folks.

We saw this with emasculation of men about a decade ago where some men were feigning feminism and almost self-hate to be seen as allies of the feminists. That led to a generation of emasculated men when women will always want strong, compassionate, respectful men and not sycophants. There is a danger of having a group of sycophants on racial issues who don't know how to have their own opinions with compassion instead of resorting to automatic apology and surrender, with opposite extremes being created in response. Again, real guilt will lead to real sacrifice like Alexis Ohanian demonstrated. Instead, most of the apology is in the form of empty words that people see through clearly, like Beto who turned himself from someone who can take down Cruz to the epitome of self-hate without real belief that would have manifested in real sacrifice.

As I stated, MAGA is not the problem. It is a symptom. When we have conclusions as arguments from both sides and those who don't agree put into a corner as insensitive or racists or lacking bandwidth, it will not make the disagreement go away. It will fester until a demagogue like Trump comes along and makes it OK to voice the discontent even more violently due to the prior shaming.

Open debate and potentially hurt feelings, and not name calling and shaming, are the beginning of the answer.

Anyone who has ever worked in negotiation and persuasion knows that the best way to get people over to your side of argument is find common grounds, find areas of agreement, listen and discuss. But we don't. We don't because our sense of self is not based on what we have done for the world but what we say we believe and how much we don't like the other side.


More racist? Yes, at least more openly and overtly.

I'm not sure we have much common ground if you see men supporting feminism and equal rights for women as men having self-hate.
I guess I was asking what you think has caused the climate to be more racist in your view despite all of the mandated social engineering supposedly designed to mitigate and alleviate racism in our society.

I absolute do not support feminism as expressed in the form of male hate as opposed to just equal rights for the sexes while recognizing the difference in the sexes. I believe the sexes are different, and I have taught my boys to be strong, respectful men who lead and protect the women in their lives. But if you have not seen the surrender from males claiming to be feminists in the prior decade with men in themselves and masculinity argued as inferior or toxic as opposed to just dishonorable behavior of some men, you are not being genuine. Chivalry is a good thing. I still train in mixed martial arts because I feel the need to be the protector while honoring and respecting my wife and daughters in all things. In my family, while my wife and I discuss and consult, if there is a disagreement (which is rare since I put her interest before mine), we both understand that one person has to make the final decision, and it will be me. I don't care what anyone else says. That has worked well in my family.


My opinion is that there are a lot of people who are tolerant as long as it doesn't threaten them in some way. They know that one gay guy at the office and make fun of his flamboyant clothes. They have that one black friend. Their gardener is Mexican and their doctor is Jewish. A Sikh runs the gas station. Their accountant is Korean. Maybe their boss is even a woman. Hey, America is about diversity, right? It bothers them sometimes but it's no big deal.

However, when they start to feel like they are losing power then their mere prejudice becomes bigotry. As I said earlier, I think Obama becoming President and appointing a lot of black people to positions of power changed the dynamic.

Combine that with people losing their jobs to immigrants (legal or otherwise) and women and minorities such as Asians being better educated and less willing to take **** as a result and uneducated white men saw that their role in the future of America is diminishing. Rather than go to school like their female counterparts they retreated to the havens of uneducated white males like the trades and the police force which is where they are still concentrated.

They think if they can send all the immigrants back, prevent people from obtaining an education, and control women they can level the playing field.

On 1995 they weren't a minority, but now they are and it will just get worse over time. The white neighborhood will tolerate a minority family living there but when it becomes 50% minorities they want to leave or else force the minorities out.




Interesting perspective.

A few thoughts and questions.

So, have the uneducated white men lost "power" and, therefore, are acting out? All this talk of white privilege is no longer relevant to them since they are now in the minority and have lost the power they once enjoyed?

All the uneducated white women, in response, went to college? So are women superior to men?

Educated white men like yourself (if you are white) are immune from feeling the same threat and therefore did not fall victim to the hateful response? Or are the folks here just a superior model and have no need for further sacrifice or have privilege they should surrender willingly to the rightful owners?

We seem to talk about others being the problem and being the ones who need to change. How about you and others who feel as you do? Is feeling enough or do you actually have to surrender what you believe were ill gotten? Just wondering the degree of conviction. Obviously, if you found out your kids stole your neighbor's bike, you would return it. How about what you obtained from the social construct that gave you your position in life?

Thanks for your thoughtful responses. All interesting takes even if I disagree.


Older white men still have most of the power in this country, but it is less than it used to be and society is actively trying to take it away from them. They view this as a bad thing instead of a positive thing because they are selfish. White privilege still exists but even the fact that we talk about it irritates them because they refuse to believe it.

I don't know if women are superior to men, but the stats say that in 1995 26% of men had a college degree and 20% of women did. Now men are up to 36% but women have doubled to 40%. That means a lot more competition in the workplace and in general. A lot of women might have a problem with you being the one to "make the final decision" in your family. Would that bother you?

I think educated people are less fearful, more tolerant, and more compassionate. Exposure to different beliefs and cultures in college is key but so is recognizing that in a true meritocracy the person who succeeds may not look like me or hold my same beliefs. White male Christians are taught that other races and religions are inferior as are women. In college it becomes evident that is not always true.

As for what I can do, it is not clear that surrendering what I have is the best course of action. I'm not wealthy and powerful. What I can do is work to change society and lift people up. As a white male I acknowledge I might have a bias in hiring decisions or other areas where I can impact people's lives financially and try to overcome that bias.

I try to treat people with respect and kindness. I try to set a good example for my own community and also for other communities by giving people the benefit of the doubt. That young black male at the bus stop is probably waiting for a bus and not waiting to rob me as I walk by so smile and say hello instead of move to the other side of the street like some people might. What I see is that the community is better and stronger if we are all more trusting and less fearful of each other. That happens when we make overt attempts to integrate communities by providing low income housing in wealthy areas for example.

Politically, I support candidates and policies that are inclusive. Anyone who demonizes disadvantaged minorities is either ignorant or pushing an agenda of hatred to further their own goals.

Interestingly, I do not support reparations. I think it is folly to try to ascertain who got screwed the most. We've all been screwed unless we are descendants of nobility. What we should do it make sure that stops now.

That said, I think the redistribution of wealth is not a bad idea to some extent. I think taxation is the best way to accomplish that. Even great fortunes can dwindle in just a few generations with the right tax policies in place. I am willing to pay more than my share of taxes to make sure that happens as long as the people with real wealth contribute along with me.

 
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