calbear93 said:
Not Me - Us said:
calbear93 said:
Not Me - Us said:
calbear93 said:
"Don't want to be around people who pose a threat carrying weapons of menace openly." Let me get this straight. Are you against gun ownership
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For many like me who have been training in martial arts and mixed martial arts for decades, we know that it is fairly easy to kill people without guns.
Will you be competing in the next All-Valley Tournament or Kumite? If so, I'd like to watch you compete.
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OK one more - "don't dress in one of their prescribed ways of gender presentation and then try and use a toilet" - Again, let me ask you a question. If I were to go into a bathroom that you wife was using, would that be OK with you?
We had co-ed bathrooms in Clark Kerr in 1988. 22 years ago. Showers too. It's not a big deal unless you're a prude.
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Trolls like Aunbear and Calpoly can feel free to **** off and keep your "snowflake" or other knee jerk responses to yourself. Not interested in your idiocy or discussion with you. Just grown ups.
I feel left out. I was hoping you'd address this to my 30-40 some alts. 75% of which wouldn't even be able to respond to you.
Wasn't addressed to you, but OK.
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I admit, I chuckled at the reference to All-Valley Tournament or Kumite. Loved Karate Kid when I saw it in my youth, but that also was the most ridiculous representation of martial arts. Kumite did seem real, and I loved Blood Sports but it actually turned out to be a fraud.
The referee was a real karate guy - he trained everybody. But they're still actors, so it's not going to be as real as the martial arts lesson my kid took today.
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I haven't competed since college. And the funny thing is that the last time I fought was also in college at a parking lot in Underground (no longer there in campus). Lasted all of 30 seconds over Street Fighter 2. Someone wanted to fight me over the game, I tried to talk him out of it, and he insisted, even smacking me upside the head while I was playing. Went to the parking lot, I gave him two light front kicks to his chest and he was asking me what the hell was wrong with me as if he didn't think we would actually hit each other. No harm, no foul, and we went back to playing Street Fighter. Other than sparring, haven't fought or competed almost 30 years.
Like Daniel-San says, we train so we won't have to fight. Same deal with my daughter. She got to use the Samurai sword today. First lesson. Taekwondo is not the taekwondo I took at Cal anymore.
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Used to compete in high school when I focused on TKD, but since I focus mainly in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, just go to exercise, train and spar. Probably don't have the cardio to last two rounds if I wanted to compete now.
I have the cardio to get from the kitchen to the easy chair. I did get to beat the living crap out of my daughter with a foam thingie today though and inform her that in fact, *I* am her father. Then she snuck attacked me from behind later. Good times.
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And I don't have it in me to want to compete. I also have no desire to fight even with the most obnoxious persons. Because I know enough to defend myself, I probably passed more on opportunities to fight. No need to prove myself.
Wise.
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I was in Clark Kerr in 1989. Small world. I was in a two bedroom suite so didn't have co-ed bathroom.
I was in the dorms, lived directly under Mike Pawlawski. He was kind of a jerk back then, but has grown up since.
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But if you feel that way, you should be out there promoting gender neutral bathrooms.
I don't think the public is ready for that. My solution is a three bathroom solution. Men's, women, and private. Those who worry about who is what gender can use the private stall.
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And if you have any female members in your family, you should encourage them to use the men's bathroom to prove a point.
Once my 5 foot tall 100 lb daughter gets trained up a little, I'll be sure to have her push your head into a toilet to prove a point.
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Oh, you are always left out. But putting you on the list is like trying to put you on ignore. Too much trouble for too little value. But when you are not a delusional fool, you are funny, so no real motivation to ignore you.
You do you. Just admit that you always to go your last resort cause it's true.
Interesting point about the dojang teaching samurai swords in TKD. When I was training and teaching TKD, weapons were strictly not taught. And using samurai sword would have been unthinkable considering how much my TKD master hated everything Japanese. But who knows how things are now. I think it is awesome to encourage daughters to learn martial arts. TKD is great but I would eventually have your daughter learn more grappling arts. All my kids have been doing martial arts too since they were toddlers. They know never to bully and always to defend the weak. Love the confidence they have when they are out, not having to fight to know they can fight. I am sure at this point, you daughter can beat me up. I may have more than foot on her, but I am now old and tire easily. I hope she goes through life fearless and ready to dominate.
I was definitely looking for something more practical, but the fact that the dojo is being operated by a female black belt and that she was very highly recommended for positive attitude and building self-esteem made her a good choice I thought. She only reopened this week. Today's first lesson was just my daughter in the dojo and another student doing it remotely on Zoom.
It was fantastic. She got to punch and kick a heavy bag, break various boards of different resistance, and of course sneak attack me. Very happy she's reopened and think this is gonna be great for my daughter, who had a hard year of adjustment from junior high to high school.
She does some Krav Maga too, but since you can't really practice Krav Maga in competition, this is a good starting place.
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Not sure what you wrote at the end. But I hope your daughter keeps it up and convinces her dad to spend a bit less time on these boards creating sock puppets and get back in shape. Get back into martial arts. And maybe one day we two old men can engage in a friendly sparring session until one us passes out from fatigue (most likely after 5 minutes).
Oh, you'd kick my ass easily. The only thing I'm good for now is sumo wrestling.
As for the "sock puppets," I'd prefer they not be necessary, but since Greg R. hasn't agreed that the whole idea of keeping me off the board when he can't is silly, I just do what I need to.
Anyhow, this was a pleasant and unexpected diversion, which gives me the opportunity to make this point.
Regardless of differences in religion, race, class, etc. we are much more alike than we are different. If we take the time to understand each other, we can probably find common ground. When we come at things automatically assuming the worst of the person we're talking to because they have a different background than we do, we miss the opportunity to find that common ground and find something that we can all learn to live with.
Just think about it.
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