A Liberal Thing said:
OaktownBear said:
Whining Liberal Parents said:
sycasey said:
OaktownBear said:
sycasey said:
This kind of response from the secretary for the Oakland teachers union does not make me confident. (She deleted the tweet that's been screenshotted here, but it's definitely real as I saw it last night.)
I'm seeing similar attitudes across more than a few teachers' reps and have seen similar arguments made by folks here (dimitrig), so now I think I know where they're coming from. In the past I have typically supported teachers unions but now I am starting to lose respect. It's one thing to have concerns about safety, quite another to impugn the motives of parents who pay taxes and whose children you are supposed to serve.
Oakland parents massively supported teachers when they walked out in 2019. It is a shame to see what Covid is doing to the parent - teacher relationship
I think the unions are being pretty short-sighted here about how much the continued resistance to reopening is damaging their own long-term cause. Liberal parents were their strongest allies, and this is going to fray that relationship the longer it drags on.
In Oregon they have prioritized teachers ahead of even elderly people for vaccines and some of the unions still don't want to go back. This is not reasonable.
You guys are all so fscking full of shyt.
Parents know the truth about the "support" of liberal parents. Liberal parents whine to the teachers about grades so they can get their kids into the best colleges. Liberal parents whine to the teachers about some small offense that they've taken. Liberal parents will cancel them if they say the wrong thing and try to get them fired.
And liberal parents ain't gonna do jack shyt. What are they going to threaten them with? Vote Republican so that the leaders will enact more anti-union legislation? Even lower pay and benefits? Fsck you guys and your fake concern about teachers. You want your low-paid babysitters back and any concerns you pretend to have for your kid's well-being is the same hot air you blow on every other issue.
I'm so concerned for your mental well being because you've had to be full-time parents for a year. My mom did it for 18. Grow a pair and stop whining about your needs and pretending it's about the kids, cause it's not. As always, it's all about you.

1. wrapping a poor argument in a bunch of insults and a stupid meme doesn't make it smarter
2. Why is this a liberal thing? Parents of all political persuasions are lobbying for schools to open. It isn't even close to a liberal issue. You just want to bang on liberals because you are at war with liberals.
3. We all know there are bad parents. We all know that some parents will hammer teachers for grades. And most of the parents hate them and wish the school would stand up to them. It is pathetic that some groups are smearing all parents (which, by the way, most of the population is at some point in their lives, with the traits of a cliche stereotype. I guarantee you virtually everyone here has had experience with more than one teacher who is a burnout case or who doesn't give a damn about the students and who you know has a calendar with a bunch of X's on it at home that says "3000 more days to retirement". The fact is that most parents are good parents and most teachers are good teachers, and both care about the education of their children/students.
4. What are liberal parents going to do? Well, I think union leaders ought to consider what they might not do. In 2019 the Oakland teachers walked out after a year of negotiations. Parents and students massively supported them on picket lines and by putting a lot of pressure on the school administration. Teachers got over twice the raise the school district had previously offered. To quote the union president:
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The real victory of our historic strike for the schools our students deserve lies in the power and unity we built at our school sites, in our union, and in the city of Oakland," said Keith Brown, president of the Oakland Education Association labor union, during a press conference Friday. "Tens of thousands of Oaklanders of all ages joined us on our picket lines and at our mass rallies and actions
.Union leaders, as well as school boards feeling pressure, have massively thrown parents under the bus just 2 years after parents stood up for them. They didn't need to do that to make their point. They did the short sighted thing of going in guns blazing on every argument that is right in front of their face without assessing who they need as allies in future battles. I think parents who have been told they don't give a shyte about their kids are not exactly going to march alongside those people the next time they want a pay raise. It is a stupid argument. Most parents love their kids and most people have the experience of being parents. I know teachers and administrators have to deal with crappy parents and I know they are the ones most often in their face, but they also get to deal with the parents who help in the classroom and who help get them all the resources they need when the school won't.
5. Yes there are parents who only care about grades and they whine to teachers to get better grades for their kids. You know what? They are perfectly happy right now. They are mostly parents of high schoolers who don't need supervision and grading for online learning is much easier. Those parents are happy to have the schools stay closed.
6. The hilarious thing about this stereotype about the parents with their nannies is that those parents HAVE NANNIES. They aren't looking for a babysitter. They have one. They don't care about paying them, its chump change to them. Often, they pay the nanny all day anyway and have them do other jobs. Parents who don't want to be with their kids are not the issue. They already aren't.
7. So, do I want cheap babysitting? My kid is a high schooler. I don't need a babysitter. My kid is fine. Would like to see her friends, yes. I've known for months my kid isn't going back in a meaningful way until fall. Doesn't bother me. The risks of going back are greater for high schoolers and the damage of remote learning is not nearly as severe, so I am perfectly fine with keeping high schools closed. In fact, I actively supported letting elementary schools use the high school facilities to increase social distancing if that helped make it safer. Elementary school kids do not learn on zoom. Period. They are being significantly hurt by this and to me that outweighs the minimal risk to elementary school teachers.
8. It goes without saying that opening schools requires proper ventilation, masking, and social distancing as per the CDC guidelines and the vast majority of parents want that as it keeps their kids safe as well as teachers. Unions would have a parent ally in that if they stopped insulting parents. Fact is, though, that most school districts that are trying to open are following those guidelines and putting those measures in place.
9. You are the one blowing hot air. You are at war with liberals so whatever side they take you take the opposite one. Including when that means letting predominantly white, middle class professionals jump the vaccine line over predominantly minority, poorer workers who are at more significant risk because the former has an irrational fear not borne out by scientific studies and the latter is just used to their health and welfare not mattering. The bottom line is that when all the data says indoor restaurants are dangerous, you ignore it (because liberals supposedly want them closed). When all the data says we are going to be in a world of hurt if Americans all have Thanksgiving gatherings, you ignore it because you want to stuff turkey down your neck and then when the death rate quadruples you stick by your guns. In every other Covid shut down situation you have said prove it, prove it, prove it despite mountains of evidence. The one time you say, no, don't need to prove it is the one time their is tons of evidence that the activity is safe. But, basically sycasey and I are on this side of the argument, so in order to call us fakes, you have to go opposite to everything you have said. You love to throw the words fake and fraud around and you are the fraud. You stand for nothing except the opposite of what others say. You like Jo Rowling so much. She has you pegged. You are a boggart. You can't take a form except in relation to the individual in front of you.
Most parents love their kids. They like to be with their kids. When their kids are in school they still parent them 19 hours a day. They want their kids in school to get an education. They supported closing schools last spring when it made sense. Now the data is extremely clear in the case of elementary schools that the risk is low and the harm is great. The unions, school boards, and educators who have chosen to portray parents in this light in order to win an argument are in for some very uncomfortable times. And by the way, most haven't done that. IMO, those that have should be sent packing. Hard to see how people who have such little respect for the families in their district are qualified to have any say in the direction our education takes.
1. Some people deserve the insults.
2. sycasey made it a liberal thing.
3. The percentage of teachers who are burnouts is much lower than the percentage of parents who are genuinely concerned about their kids and the welfare and safety of teachers. As a child of a teacher, you may not know that many teachers. I've spent decades working with teachers, so I know the profession quite well.
4. No offense, but you need the support of the teachers far more than they need your support. They were throwing you a bone to make you seem important.
5. They are not happy. They don't want to have to deal with their teenagers either.
6. Most people who have nannies also have their kids in private schools.
7. I was responding to sycasey, not you.
8. Teachers have years of being backstabbed by parents. Don't play the angel card. Every teacher knows the biggest pain in the ass of their job is dealing with parents.
9. DNGAF about whatever you wrote in #9. I don't care what you think my motivations are. I'm just here to tweak you hypocrites and if you don't like it, tough shyt. Thanks for the wall of text though.
Sincerely,
Loyal hanky1 supporter (who also does a great job of telling you all to fsck yourselves)
1. Wrong
2. No he didn't
3. Wrong and shows your lack of respect for parents. Yes, most teachers are awesome. So are most parents. Bad ones are loud and glaring but most are supportive and just trying to get the best education for their kids. By the way I could share a lot of stories about teachers who worked with my father (and including my father) who went above and beyond for their students at a very poor school including giving of their time and their own money
4. Good luck with that next time teachers go on strike. The last Oakland strike was very short and very successful for teachers and a large component of that was parents screaming at the school district from the jump. Makes it a lot easier for the district to hold out longer if parents aren't breathing down their necks on the issue. But the bottom line is that no one needed to argue the interests of teachers (which the union absolutely should be doing) by arguing that parents are all a pile of shyte that don't give a crap about their kids. By the way, about 85% of people become parents, so arguing that "parents" suck traits is basically calling the entire community a bunch of asshats. Good luck fighting that battle.
5. Have you ever had a teenager? Or been one? Because, yeah, teens tend not to spend all day hanging out with their parents. And they are spending as much time in zoom class as they would in the classroom. Parents of teens don't need a babysitter and their kids are out of their hair as much now as ever. Parents of teens who want schools open are not in need of babysitters. They want their kids to have a normal education. I'm more patient than they are, but questioning the motives of every single one of them is ridiculous
6. Yes so why are people painting the bulk of parents as if they are a tiny percentage of parents who are not even relevant to the conversation. Parents want their kids to have a good education. I have to say that being a youth coach this classification of parents is wholly unfair. Yes, I have had the one or two kids who are dumped at practice or games, who have no interest in the sport, and whose parents I never see. The bulk of the parents, especially when they are young and it is more appropriate, provide a lot of help and support and they come out to support their kids at games. I'd also point out that along with a ton of volunteers throughout the school year, when we have back to school night of all ages, classrooms are packed with parents. You don't get to the room early, you are standing because all the seats are taken and many end up standing in every class. You really don't need to attend in high school, yet they are extremely well attended on a weeknight when many are tired from work or have to leave work early to get there. That is not the behavior of parents looking for babysitters. That is the behavior of parents who care about their kids' education
7. Wasn't the point. You are challenging the motivation of everyone making the argument.
8. Any reasonable educator knows that the parents that backstab them are a small percentage. When you are dealing with 60-300 parents depending on where you teach, there will always be an asshat in the bunch.
9. Yes you do care and you don't tweak anyone. We all know you are a sad, person so desperate for attention that you take pathetic means to circumvent the moderation of a web community that doesn't want you because you have nothing better to do in your life than cry for attention on a tiny portion of the web. When you try and tweak by making false arguments because they are just the opposite of what someone else says, it isn't effective. I just want you to know that everyone knows how fake, sad, and pathetically small the behavior is.