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'Barely breathing': Entire family feels physical and financial pain of COVID-19
In the darkest hour of the most desperate night in his family's fight with the coronavirus, 38-year-old Frances Milds watched over his ailing wife in their Olivehurst home.
"She was barely breathing," he said.
Milds turned on a humidifier, covered his wife with a thicker, winter blanket and then went to check on their 13-year-old daughter, who was sick in her room. Milds soon found himself slumped over a bathroom counter, coughing, dizzy and on the verge of unconsciousness.
"I thought I was going to die like I would not wake up," Milds said. "I was standing in my bathroom, weighing my options at 2 in the morning, not sure if I was going to make it or if I should write up a will before I go."
Milds and his wife, 38-year-old Toni Stratton, both of whom grew up in the Sacramento area, had followed the news as the coronavirus carved swaths of destruction across Asia and Europe. Now, it was in their home in a Yuba County town of about 14,000 people ravaging their immune systems, wrecking their finances, hurling them into a world of pain and frustration.
"I've never been sick like this in my entire life," Stratton said. "I knew what it was. My eyes were burning. I had headaches. The body aches were the worst. I felt like I was paralyzed. It hurt so bad. It was awful."
Stratton is one of 50 people in the Yuba-Sutter area who have tested positive for COVID-19, the respiratory disease caused by the coronavirus. Her husband and their daughter, Kairi, were not tested, but they were presumed positive. Their ordeal exposed them to limitations in the county's ability to test, treat and count coronavirus patients, and subjected them to flaws in a state unemployment system that was not prepared for this kind of crisis.
"The whole thing is a mess," Stratton said.
Stratton and Milds are sharing their story of suffering in hopes of helping others.
'WORSE BY THE MINUTE'
Stratton and her daughter first experienced symptoms on March 15, four days before Gov. Gavin Newsom issued a stay-at-home order to nearly 40 million California residents. Stratton said an itchy throat was followed by coughing and sneezing before the symptoms worsened.
"It was almost like really bad allergies," she said.
Stratton woke up on the third day with a temperature of 101.7 degrees. Her employer told her she had to be tested for the coronavirus before she could return to work. She was tested March 20 and would wait 10 long days for the results.
Milds started experiencing symptoms after caring for his wife and daughter for several days.
"I was trying to take care of these two, but I was getting worse by the minute," he said. "Not by the day by the minute."
Milds described unbearable intestinal pain, the same feeling of paralysis his wife and daughter experienced, intense migraines and nose bleeds. His fever spiked to 103 degrees.
"This thing is terrifying," Milds said. "When you see how many people have keeled over from this, and people are not taking this seriously, it's just crazy. You think this is just the flu? No. If you've never had this, you have no idea."
As of Monday morning, more than 3.4 million people around the world had tested positive for COVID-19 and 239,604 had died, according to the
World Health Organization. There were over 1.1 million cases and 65,735 deaths in the United States, according to the
Centers for Disease Control.
COVID-19 QUARANTINE
Stratton said her doctor was reluctant to test her for COVID-19 due to a shortage of testing kits, but she insisted because of her work requirement.
"The worst thing was trying to convince the doctor this was more than just the flu," Stratton said. "She said, 'Well, the cold and the flu are both going around.' She's been my doctor for 16 or 17 years now. I said, 'When was the last time I came to you with the flu?'"
Stratton's doctor administered the test at her office in Citrus Heights, inserting a 6-inch swab deep into each of her nostrils for 15 seconds and rotating several times to collect a proper sample. Ten days later, on March 30, the doctor called to tell Stratton she tested positive for COVID-19. A representative from the Yuba-Sutter Health Department called the same day with instructions and questions many questions.
"They asked about my husband, myself and my daughter," Stratton said. "They wanted to know where he works, where I work, where she goes to school."
The whole family was placed under quarantine for two weeks. County health officials said Milds, Stratton and their daughter should isolate themselves inside their four-bedroom, three-bathroom home.
"They said we couldn't be near each other," Stratton said. "They said we can't share blankets, utensils, plates, food, anything."
TESTING SHORTFALLS
The family's story illustrates how worldwide testing issues have made it difficult to assess the scope and severity of the global pandemic. All three members of the household were diagnosed with COVID-19, but only Stratton was counted as a positive case because her husband and daughter were not tested.
"The doctor told my wife if she has it, then I definitely have it, so there would be no reason to test me," Milds said.
Many people infected with the coronavirus have not been tested due to a shortage of testing kits. Many others are not being tested because they have not developed serious symptoms. Experts have explained the number of people infected with the virus is much higher than the number of confirmed cases.
Russ Brown, a public information officer for Yuba County, said the Yuba-Sutter Health Department reports positive test results to the CDC, but it does not report presumed or suspected COVID-19 cases.
"We've said from the beginning there are many more cases of coronavirus than the positive tests indicate and that's mainly because we've had a limited number of testing kits available," Brown said. "I think people put too much on that tested-positive number because there are so many more who were never tested."
Brown said
a new testing site at the Sutter County Veterans Hall will allow more than 130 Yuba and Sutter county residents to be tested each weekday, increasing testing capacity in the Yuba-Sutter area by 600 percent.
FINANCES AND FRUSTRATION
Stratton and Milds said contracting the coronavirus has taken a huge financial toll on their family.
Milds is a self-employed personal trainer, but he has not worked since undergoing hernia surgery seven months ago. Stratton, a customer service specialist, was out of work for a month while recovering from COVID-19. She said she exhausted her paid time off over the first seven days and went unpaid for about three weeks before returning to work April 13.
Stratton is now working from home, but the income lost during her recovery was a financial setback for the family. They are thousands of dollars behind on their mortgage payment. Their cellphones and internet service have been disconnected. Other bills remain unpaid.
"This has ruined us financially," Milds said.
Anyone wishing to help can visit the family's Go Gund Me page.
Stratton and Milds applied for unemployment March 22 and both were approved, they said, but they still haven't received their first payments. The Employment Development Department's antiquated computer systems were not prepared for the crush of 3.2 million people who filed for unemployment over the past six weeks,
California Labor Secretary Julie Su said last week.
Milds can't even log in to check the status of his benefits. Stratton can log in to see a check was issued to her April 6, but she can't reach anyone through the EDD's automated telephone system to report the payment has not been received.
"I can't contact anybody," she said. "It wouldn't let me talk to a human being. When you finally get into a cue, it says their cue is full, 'Goodbye,' and just hangs up on you."
EDD officials did not respond to an email from The Sacramento Bee and could not be reached by phone.
ISOLATION AND CONFUSION
Stratton said county health officials were constantly in contact, calling every day to ask about her symptoms, but they never asked about her husband or daughter. The family doctor was required to report all three COVID-19 cases to Yuba-Sutter health officials, but that information was not provided to department representatives who tracked Stratton's case.
"They didn't even know Frances and my daughter were sick," Stratton said. "I had to explain to three different people and they all said, 'Well, did he get tested?' And then I explained that, too, and they said, 'Oh.' They had no clue.
"They had to ask me the same questions every single day: when I got sick, when the fevers started, when they stopped, when I got tested. I had to answer these questions every time, and then they got it all confused. It was just a really messy thing."
When a county health officer called to review Stratton's quarantine status after two weeks of isolation, he, too, was unaware there were two more coronavirus cases in her home.
"He freaked out," Milds said. "He actually put us on an extra two weeks of quarantine."
UNANSWERED QUESTIONS
County health officials released all three family members from quarantine April 12. Stratton went back to work the following day. They are hoping to overcome the hardships after weeks of debilitating illness and isolation, hoping the worst is over.
Milds has asked about potential immunities that might prevent his family from going through this again, but those questions remain unanswered.
"I asked about the herd immunity and the antibodies and if we're going to be immune to this thing," Milds said. "My doctor and two representatives from the health department all told me none of that is conclusive at this point."
Antibody tests are designed to detect signs of coronavirus exposure in the blood, but the
tests are reportedly proving to be inaccurate and it is unknown if the presence of antibodies confers any level of immunity.
"They don't even know if we can keep giving it to each other," Milds said. "We've been sitting here super afraid because we have older relatives. We have people with extenuating illnesses. We don't know if we're still infected. We don't know if we're infectious. We don't know if we're just carriers now. Nobody really knows anything."
Stratton and Milds felt like they were left alone to fight the full force of a global pandemic by themselves, but they know there are many more like them counted or uncounted waging their own battles in isolation.
"The struggle is real, and not just for us," Milds said. "If we're going through this, that means there are plenty of other families going through the same thing."
Jason Anderson is an award-winning sportswriter for The Sacramento Bee. He started his journalism career at The Bee more than 20 years ago and returned to cover the Sacramento Kings in September 2018.
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